I need to stay in a youth hostel this summer. I thought I had read on here that any woman needing a single-sex dorm had to contact the organisation in advance.
I realise now that I had mixed two different threads in my memory. The organisation which specifically stated that, for example, "victims of abuse" should get in touch in advance, was YHA England and Wales, not Hostelling Scotland.
www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3662983-Shocked-by-YHA-transgender-policy-wording
but Hostelling Scotland was letting males identify into women's dorms in 2018.
www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3280690-Hostelling-Scotland-allows-men-to-self-ID-as-women-and-have-access-to-womens-dorms-and-shower-rooms?
I emailed to ask if I could be in a female-only dorm (I am female) and got the attached response.
I've also attached their current "Approach to Inclusion."
That looks like it will be pretty safe that it will be only females in the bedroom, right? Or does anyone have any recent experience to the contrary?
I think I will reply to thank them for clarifying. I'm totally happy to share with different "gender presentations" - butch women, transmen, female non-binary identified people etc.
I find travel stressful enough without having to worry about strange penises being in the room where I'm asleep, or about having to carefully word emails to avoid being seen as a bigot.