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I think i encountered a fellow traveller at work today. We briefly mentioned Adam Tickell...

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BenCooperisaGod · 04/05/2022 17:27

And looked at eachother a bit uncertainly.

If you are on here just say something dinosaur related the next time our paths cross.

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Shortpoet · 05/05/2022 21:30

I was thinking about this recently when I met up with a friend who recently worked for a very woke organisation. We skirted round the subject for a good long while before realising we both thought the same. I thought that we needed a password!

This from a Handmaids Tale came to mind:

”It's a beautiful May day," Ofglen says. I feel rather than see her head turn towards me, waiting for a reply.
"Yes," I say. "Praise be," I add as an afterthought. Mayday used to be a distress signal, a long time ago, in one of those wars we studied in
high school. I kept getting them mixed up, but you could tell them apart by the airplanes if you paid attention. It was Luke who told me about mayday, though. Mayday, mayday, for pilots whose planes had been hit, and ships — was it ships too? — at sea. Maybe it was SOS for ships. I wish I could look it up. And it was something from Beethoven, for the beginning of the victory, in one of those wars.
Do you know what it came from? said Luke. Mayday?
No, I said. It's a strange word to use for that, isn't it?
Newspapers and coffee, on Sunday mornings, before she was born. There were still newspapers, then. We used to read them in bed. It's French, he said. From m'aidez.
Help me.”

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"Who told you?" I say. There's no one near, we can speak more freely, but out of habit we keep our voices low.
"The grapevine," she says. She pauses, looks sideways at me, I can sense the blur of white as her wings move. "There's a password," she says.
"A password?" I ask. "What for?"
"So you can tell," she says. "Who is and who isn't."
Although I can't see what use it is for me to know, I ask, "What is it then?"
"Mayday," she says. "I tried it on you once."
"Mayday," I repeat. I remember that day. M'aidez.
"Don't use it unless you have to," says Ofglen. "It isn't good for us to know about too many of the others, in the network. In case you get caught."

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DomesticatedZombie · 05/05/2022 22:37

Well, Shortpoet, we've got about 25 days left for that one to work!

Shortpoet · 06/05/2022 07:46

We’ll I didn’t mean that specific word. It was more in the spirit of Margaret Atwood should understand better what women are up against and how we give coded messages.

But Offred does find a way to use it when it isn’t May.

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I've only known her since May," I say. I can feel my skin growing hot, my heart speeding up. This is tricky. For one thing, it's a lie. And how do I
get from there to the next vital word? "Around the first of May I think it was. What they used to call May Day."
"Did they?" she says, light, indifferent, menacing. "That isn't a term I remember. I'm surprised you do. You ought to make an effort..." She
pauses. "To clear your mind of such..." She pauses again. "Echoes."
Now I feel cold, seeping over my skin like water. What she is doing is warning me.

Jellycatspyjamas · 06/05/2022 08:19

@Ratonastick that’s a lovely brooch, I’ve just ordered one - it’ll look lovely on a new blazer I’ve bought and plan to wear a lot.

SpringLobelia · 06/05/2022 09:08

I looked up dinosaur jewellery but managed to buy a dinosaur tshirt in my size instead. I have been enjoying wearing it.

Wauden · 11/05/2022 18:59

I have a coaster with a suffragette poster image on it. Maybe l could put it on a work desk, or let it accidentally fall out if my handbag.

Wauden · 11/05/2022 19:01

@Shortpoet I have not read the Handmaid's Tale, but your quotes from it make me want to!

Shortpoet · 11/05/2022 19:05

Do read it. It shows how quickly society can take away women’s rights (which is why Margaret Atwood really ought to know better).
There’s a free pdf version online if you Google it.

BenCooperisaGod · 13/05/2022 21:14

She has pronouns on her e mail signature 😰

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Wauden · 18/05/2022 23:48

Oh no!

IcakethereforeIam · 19/05/2022 00:03

She might be weak not woke.

Actually that's unfair but I liked the alliteration.

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