I confided in someone I admire “I can’t bear the damage that is being done to my society, to women and our trans communities by weak leaders who turn a blind eye to flawed arguments and bad law”.
“You must bear it” she gently replied “and you must speak up”.
Well that made me dissolve into tears and I'm a cold old hag that doesn't cry easily.
That's exactly how I feel and what so many other women have confided in me.
I'm so tired of this
it makes me so angry, so bitter, I feel so defeated
I haven't got the energy to keep fighting this, it's relentless
I read that wave of utter nastiness, the kind of thing I've never heard out loud from anyone in reality, the utter hatred of females, and I feel physically sick, and it's there in fresh waves every day
But what choice have we got? If we don't stick this out, if we don't woman up and keep writing those letters and reading and talking here and fighting, then women are fucked. Us and our daughters. If we don't no one else is going to.
And I'll tell you; this time when we re achieve women's equality in law, we're not fucking accepting the thin veneer and a few gestures version. It's going to fucking be equality.