I do think you're falling into the trap of equating everything she posts as being her professional rather than personal opinion and I think that is another area where younger, working class women are held to a higher standard than men
Absolutely agree about women being held to a higher standard than men and how frustrating that is but I really take issue with this being a problem of someone posting their personal opinion.
Jess owns a business - by expressing these controversial opinions and gaining a big following she is potentially making her a lot of money. Didn't JK Rowling help her get a publishing deal? One of her training courses for individuals is £2600 and she does a lot of corporate training too which she must charge a lot for (incidentally she was hiring research assistants last year, they needed to have about 2 years of experience I think and I'm sure the successful applicants will have shelled out for master's degrees and she was only paying about £10 an hour) . This is likely all very very lucrative for Jess. I have actually spent months thinking how fantastic Victim Focus looks - this isn't a black and white issue. I'v been cheering her on admiring her energy and her efforts to bring about change. And my god, she has such drive getting all these books written and her podcast and her tweets - she is a force of nature. It's so frustrating that things have gone in the direction they have.
But she is potentially putting people at risk. I really don't care about the gun or the pearl story - I believe her personal story about her background. I care about the fact that she regularly posts things and medical professionals (clinicians!) try to tell her she's outright wrong and she's pretty aggressive to them in response. That's so incredibly arrogant. She's always so absolutely sure she's right and that's dangerous with the work she does. She regularly tells her 90k followers that all psychiatry is bullshit and it hands medications out like sweets despite there being no evidence in support of those medications. That is not true and there are likely vulnerable women coming off their meds having read her tweets. Some of them will be put at risk by that and they don't have easy access to medical advice. It's not ethical. It could have serious consequences for some. If she toned it down and was more balanced, her work wouldn't be ringing such loud alarm bells for me because it's really important to talk about trauma and the role of medication and misogyny in psychiatry etc.
I am not going to buy the book but some of its content particularly interests me - she posted recently (a very clickbait statement) about how did her followers know women had been euthanised because of past abuse (I'm sorry, I can't find the tweet so I don't know how she phrased it exactly. She seems to have also covered it in a podcast here podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/series-4-ep-7-sexy-but-psycho-part-2/id1522789930?i=1000553085743 which I just don't have the time to listen to) - I would love to know what cases she presents in support of that. I suspect it's Noa Pothoven, who the press wrongly claimed was euthanised, but maybe someone can correct me if you own a copy. It was an absolutely tragic story but it didn't involve euthanasia.
I think Jess knows about this thread and I think she's going down the route that she's being criticised because she is daring to challenge the system and she's a loud, confident woman. I think that's utter bullshit - I welcome the system being challenged, I have a history of trauma. I've seen some terrible and a few brilliant psychiatrists. The terrible ones were awful and I have every reason to be angry with them. I also love strong gobby women. I don't like vulnerable women being put at risk though by someone who is essentially giving medical advice they're unqualified to give. If lots and lots of qualified professionals are taking issue with what you are posting, have some humility and engage with that. It's straying into narcissism to double down and mock all your critics whilst being absolutely sure you're right.