@NecessaryScene
But when a TRA, or a Labour politician, calls a transwoman a woman there is nothing metaphorical or whimsical about it. It's not breaking rules. It is an attempt to deny the core meaning of the term, to deny the rule exists in the first place.
Yes. There was potentially not that much of a problem until "trans women are women". The moment that was being said seriously, a line had been crossed.
And most of the really stupid problems (like men in women's sports) stem from that being taken literally.
I'd have far less of a problem with a man figuratively "being" a "woman" - even though I can see why many women/feminists find that offensive. It's trying to pretend it's not figurative that means a hard "no" from me.
Yeah.
I remember about 20 years ago my mum phoned her friend's house and an unfamiliar female voice answered, and when my mum asked who it was, the answer was, "Hi Mrs Jellyfish, I used to be Richard, I'm Laura now." (Her friend's adult son, now daughter.)
I can't have been more than 16 and I remember patiently explaining to my mum that Richard had had a sex change and we must refer to him as "her" now and call her Laura.
And my view didn't change for almost two decades.
Then when all this "trans women are women" stuff started, at first it went over my head a bit. But then people started talking about how JK Rowling was a hateful bigot, and it just seemed so unlikely to me, so I read her essay and I agreed with a lot of it.
Then when Troubled Blood came out and everyone was quoting that pre-publication review about how it was a book about a trans serial killer and "the moral of the story is to never trust a man in a dress" and I had actually read the book and knew it was about nothing of the kind, I thought, "This is a witch hunt."
Then the IOC said, "Everyone agrees that trans women are women" to justify Laurel Hubbard competing in the Olympics and I was well and truly peaked.
Now I'm sitting here like, "Of course humans can't change sex, and obviously nothing is "assigned at birth", and I clearly thought I was a right little know it all when I was 16 but now I understand why my mum, who had given birth to two babies, struggled with the idea that Richard is now a woman."