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Always advert - 61% of young people have felt ashamed for having a period

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MoltenLasagne · 02/03/2022 08:52

Saw an advert for Always last night that could have been good except in their attempt to use inclusive language they have butchered their statistics.

Apparently 61% of young people have felt ashamed for having a period which is rather concerning as I would assume there was an upper limit of 50% of young people who could have a period.

Are they trying to tell us that 22% of male adolescents have also started menstruating? Or are we supposed to remember biology and think "ah, only females menstruate so they must be referring to 61% of young female people"?

Always advert - 61% of young people have felt ashamed for having a period
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Datun · 02/03/2022 10:12

@Lovelyricepudding

Why wouldn't they be ashamed of their periods when companies flogging sanitary products are also too embarrassed by female biology to even acknowledge it?

Quite.

You can't wring your hands over young girls being ashamed of their bodies, when you're calling them menstruators and cervix havers, ffs.
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Datun · 02/03/2022 10:12

I don't know that looks contradictory. Because they are acknowledging female biology. Except they're not in acknowledging that it fucking belongs to females.

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CarbonelCat · 02/03/2022 10:13

Interesting point re the scent.

No one I know wants that awful smell - it infects everything in your bag like nappy sacks do. And yet, they persist in making them like that despite the feedback.

Why is hypothetical feedback from a teeny, weeny minority given such weight?

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 02/03/2022 10:19

It’s obvious in this case. But if you hear a smaller statistic, say ‘10% of people have reported delayed periods after medication x’, how do you know whether that’s 10% or 20% of all female patients? That’s a huge difference.

Exactly. Like "x% of "people" have endometriosis" which is obscure because a lot of people in general won't know that endemetriosis is a female only condition. 20% of people could be 20% of women or 40%.

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NecessaryScene · 02/03/2022 10:42

which is obscure because a lot of people in general won't know that endemetriosis is a female only condition

And you're not allowed to tell them!

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334bu · 02/03/2022 15:05

mobile.twitter.com/violetsfrench/status/1499034214414655493
Also on twitter
Thanks for link to complaints.

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334bu · 02/03/2022 15:07

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MangyInseam · 02/03/2022 22:36

I wonder how much of this is ideological - as in they want to buy into gender ideology - and how much is just that if they use words like women or girls or even females, they know they will be hit with a load of aggressive complaints? As far as that goes they are really between a rock and a hard place, or they may think they are. Though I suspect that if they stood up for their decision it would be dropped quickly.

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RoaringtoLangClegintheDark · 02/03/2022 23:01

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Fucking idiots.

My sentiments exactly.
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OvaHere · 02/03/2022 23:12

Maybe these (obviously female) people feel like this because their schools, colleges and universities have made toilets mixed sex and pretend like girls don't exist anymore.

Always products are shit anyhow. Overly scented and make you sweaty and itchy. Only to be used in a dire emergency.

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KittyLeMew · 03/03/2022 07:55

Great so girls dealing with one of the most sex specific experiences of their lives have to have their identities erased to ‘be kind’. How can we expect girls to grow up with any kind of confidence when they aren’t allowed their own identity or language.

There’s also a massive disconnect between discussing period shame and making scented products (which are bad for women).

Let’s all write and let them know!

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334bu · 03/03/2022 08:59

Ads are supposed to be accurate. These have false statistics and we all should complain.

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DisgustedofManchester · 03/03/2022 16:49

Everyone not obsessed with trans women got the message so I am guessing hardly any young women were confused by the language used.

Seriously, no one outside of this thread ( and I think even some on here think its apreposterous suggestion ) that the inclusive stats were distracting the target audience from the message.

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DomesticatedZombie · 03/03/2022 16:53

Yay, you're back, Disgusted! Smile

Imagine seeing you here on a thread about periods! Is it something you feel strongly about, women's periods?

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AuxArmesCitoyens · 03/03/2022 16:58

@DisgustedofManchester so what, just fuck maths and fuck statistical accuracy then? Who cares, get with the programme, right? Except the UK already has a massive problem with numeracy and this kind of shot doesn't help, does it?

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donquixotedelamancha · 03/03/2022 17:07

Everyone not obsessed with trans women got the message

I don't have a clue what you think this issue has to do with trans women- you are the first person to mention them.

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DomesticatedZombie · 03/03/2022 17:24

Imagine barging onto a thread about periods, on a feminist board, on a site for mothers, to talk about transwomen. As a male.

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aloris · 03/03/2022 17:31

It's likely that the average viewer understands the true meaning of the statistic because the average viewer knows that boys and men do not menstruate.

On the other hand, when the same type of distorted language is used to describe how many women ("people") suffer from endometriosis, there is likely more misunderstanding on the part of the public. Likewise, when a woman receives a letter telling her that "people with a cervix" need cervical screening, that is problematic. Older women who just make an annual appointment with their regular gynecologist may not be affected because their gynecologist just automatically does the appropriate thing for women of that age. But a young woman who does not have a relationship with a gynecologist might have no idea what screenings she requires. A woman who has limited contact with healthcare providers because of her personal situation, might also not understand what is meant.

And it's even more problematic when it comes to statistics that SHOULD be broken down by sex, but where pushing male and female together, can allow inequities in care to be hidden. For example, "X% of young people in lower income communities have access to sport," or "Y% of young people miss school weekly because of taking care of younger siblings." In such cases, the public has an interest in knowing whether males and females are being treated equitably, and "young people" or just "people" does not give the needed information.

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PinotGrigioCat · 03/03/2022 17:38

Not caught up on whole thread yet - glad I found it as I was v annoyed when I saw the advert last night!

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Whatwouldscullydo · 03/03/2022 17:47

Everyone not obsessed with trans women got the message so I am guessing hardly any young women were confused by the language used

And why would that be?

Would it possibly be because the only reasons always get to virtue signal like this is because someone else has done the dirty work of explaining to their daughters that they are female. Girls. And that they have periods.

None of this would work otherwise

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Hasselhoffsheadband · 03/03/2022 18:01

@DisgustedofManchester

Everyone not obsessed with trans women got the message so I am guessing hardly any young women were confused by the language used.

Seriously, no one outside of this thread ( and I think even some on here think its apreposterous suggestion ) that the inclusive stats were distracting the target audience from the message.

Yes, because despite all the virtue signalling CRAAAAAAAAP that goes on around this issue, even people like you know that only girls and women have periods!
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Hasselhoffsheadband · 03/03/2022 18:04

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Hasselhoffsheadband · 03/03/2022 18:09

Sorry, my last post went completely wrong and I have asked for it to be deleted!! I will try again....

Would it possibly be because the only reasons always get to virtue signal like this is because someone else has done the dirty work of explaining to their daughters that they are female. Girls. And that they have periods.

Exactly.

The only reason that Always can earn virtue cookies in this way is because we all know that only females have periods. Always are working on the assumption that when they say 'people' we are thinking 'women and girls'. Because, despite all the claims to the contrary, when it comes down to it everyone knows who are the men and who are the women.

Even @DisgustedofManchester.

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aloris · 03/03/2022 18:11

"Ads are supposed to be accurate. These have false statistics and we all should complain."

Well I think that's also a very important point. People = all human beings of any gender or sex or age. 60% of "people" feel ashamed for having a period literally means 60% = anyone ashamed for having a period / all people of any gender X 100. They specified "young people" which presumably means some specific age group, so let's narrow it down, let's say "young" refers to the age group 12 - 21. Then the statistic would mean:

60% = 100 X # of human beings of any gender or sex, aged 12-21, who feel ashamed of having a period /# of human beings of any gender or sex aged 12 - 21

Since only 50% to 51% of people, age 12-21, are of the sex capable of having a period, then the statistic, as cited, is impossible. The statistic is false, on its face. In fact, that is the only reason it is interpretable. If the statistic were "12% of young people feel ashamed of having a period," then viewers would NOT consider it obvious that the denominator was female-bodied people. They would be totally confused.

In addition to it being problematic to cite statistics that are openly false, it decreases public trust in statistical statements. If you'll say something openly false, knowing that the listener will understand that it is false, then how much more falsehood will you consider acceptable when you are hiding that your statistics are false?

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MoltenLasagne · 03/03/2022 18:12

Oh I'm not sure, Disgusted seems to think this is because of transwomen...

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