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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Should we dispense with the word gender critical and just call ourselves biological realists?

203 replies

Stopsnowing · 22/12/2021 23:37

Just that really. If sex matters and gender is mainly irrelevant shall we just stop referring to being gender critical?

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WarriorN · 23/12/2021 10:18

While I agree that labels are powerful they also become something to smear.

I prefer to argue the points.

Lovelyricepudding · 23/12/2021 10:18

@ScrollingLeaves

Because of TWAW any ‘woman’ word is out, sadly.
I disagree. We need to reclaim the women.
WarriorN · 23/12/2021 10:18

A friend with teens has found that as they're so steeped in the labels, GC is just dismissed without engaging with the arguments behind the label.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/12/2021 10:19

who may not agree that all things related to gender are entirely ‘socially constructed’.

Anything related to 'gender' is by definition socially constructed. It's just the (relatively few) things related to sex which aren't. Reproductive role is sex; parenting roles being allocated to mum vs dad are gender. Women not being allowed to play football was gender; women needing women only teams is sex.

ScrollingLeaves · 23/12/2021 10:20

LovelyRicePudding, I crossed posts with you and had not seen you suggested ‘Women’s Rights’ and being very clear.

It does sound clear, but would it get conflated with ‘trans women’s rights’?

bordermidgebite · 23/12/2021 10:22

If the term woman is disputed then you can't use it for clarity

TheRigatonini · 23/12/2021 10:25

“DNA believers”?

MenopauseSucks · 23/12/2021 10:25

I think 'Biology Believers' sounds great! After all that's what we're saying - people can't change their biological sex.
That biology is real and not a feeling.

Lovelyricepudding · 23/12/2021 10:25

Part of what we are campaigning for is correct use of language to describe sex. We can't do that is we join in the obfuscation of it. We also know that any word used to describe women as a separate sex is claimed or disallowed so we get nowhere trying to find alternative words.

Women. Adult human female. Female is the sex class that produces large immobile gametes. We are campaigning for our right to describe ourselve as this and for men to be excluded from this regardless of how they identify.

ScrollingLeaves · 23/12/2021 10:27

Errol
“Anything related to 'gender' is by definition socially constructed. It's just the (relatively few) things related to sex which aren't. Reproductive role is sex; parenting roles being allocated to mum vs dad are gender. Women not being allowed to play football was gender; women needing women only teams is sex.”

Yes, of course you are right.
But humans in the end are social beings who will tend to construct things; and they are animal beings who signal their sex; and the elements that are entirely physical are entwined with what is social in away that is not easy to disentangle always.

What I am saying is that, pragmatically, not all women are going to see themselves and their lives as the being the result of a social construction. They never heard of GC before and don’t know what it means.

They do know they are not the same as the person arrested for being a pedophile who sexually abused a dog.

ScrollingLeaves · 23/12/2021 10:29

They do know they are not the same as the person arrested for being a pedophile who sexually abused a dog, whose ‘pronoun’ is ‘she’ and who is presenting as a woman.

Lovelyricepudding · 23/12/2021 10:30

@bordermidgebite

If the term woman is disputed then you can't use it for clarity
I am not going to roll over and let you take 'woman' because you think it kind to let men use it. Everything else, in terms of destruction of our rights, follows from this.
ImmutableSexQueen · 23/12/2021 10:31

Oh, God, yes! Let me be a 'SEX-CENTRED FEMINIST'! It's the role I've been looking for all my life!

TheRigatonini · 23/12/2021 10:37

@ErrolTheDragon

The thing about emphasising biological sex though, is that some of 'gender stereotype critical feminism' is about not overemphasising (or inventing) sex differences. The differences between the sexes are real, and immutable, but for most things they're not important and shouldn't be used to block or coerce peoples opportunities. Girls can be engineers, boys can be good parents. Etc.
Yep
falalalalalalalallama · 23/12/2021 10:38

It sounds to me like we're looking for two labels here. Let's be clear about this

  1. A name for those women who are fighting gender ideology as part of our feminism. So, we're looking for something like "women's rights activist" here.
  1. A name that sums up a belief in evidence-based biology and the lack of belief in gender woo. So, something like "biological realist" but without negative connotations. This isn't to do with feminism at all, but a wider term that anyone in society could use to show they don't believe in gender nonsense. We need a word here that the general public feel comfortable using.

Finding a word for the second one would be immensely useful IMO.

Pro-life / pro-choice is a good example. We are pro-choice as part of our feminism, but people can use the word pro-choice to express their stance on abortion without having to subscribe to any wider belief system or framework. (Although I agree in PR terms it could be a better term).

We need a term that gets across that the TRAs are essentially flat-earthers and we're reality / evidence based.

falalalalalalalallama · 23/12/2021 10:42

I think the word reality is important here as I suspect, with the rise of virtual worlds and increase in things like surrogacy, extreme cosmetic surgery, bio-hacking and interest in trans humanism, this won't be the only time we have to remind the government that reality exists and that it matters. Particularly to women, given our bodies produce and nurture babies, and to those babies.

Blibbyblobby · 23/12/2021 10:43

Female-centered feminism.

Should be a tautology. The fact it isn't highlights the absurdity we are in.

ImmutableSexQueen · 23/12/2021 10:43

Exulansic uses the term 'gender atheist'. I could happily term myself a 'Women's Rights Activist' who is also a gender atheist.

ImmutableSexQueen · 23/12/2021 10:45

Doesn't KJK use 'femalism' for her kind of feminism?

TheRigatonini · 23/12/2021 10:48

Science positive
Pro-Science
Anti-stereotype
Pro-DNA

DoubleTweenQueen · 23/12/2021 10:53

Nothing wrong with

Feminist
Woman

Our position hasn't changed so I don't see why the description should.

It'll be 'let's choose a flag' next.

Don't get sucked into the madness. Remain resolute and steadfast.

Lovelyricepudding · 23/12/2021 10:56

Good point about the two terms.

'Pro-science' gets us closer. I think it is also better to be for something. It also makes it clearer what TRAs are arguing - that they are anti-women's rights and anti-science.

I am not keen on 'realism'

ErrolTheDragon · 23/12/2021 11:06

Some 'anti' labels are fine though.

Anti racist.
Anti fascist (pity they don't all seem to know what 'fascism' actually is, but still).
Anti sexist is still ok afaik.

Moolia · 23/12/2021 11:45

Pro-reality 😄

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