I can't help feeling that the way to find out how women do things might be to watch how women do things amnd listen to them, rather that talking with men about how they think women do things.
I do find it sad that "IRL, the process can be costly and time-consuming" is all that is said; nothing about "and terrifying, and painful, and all too likely to have long-term physical and medical consequences". People ought to be warned about those, not given to understand that wish-fulfilment comes easy.