As ever with this issue, we have to understand what words mean. In this case ' gender affirmative care'. Does it mean blindly accepting everything the trans person says and acting as though it is true for you? Or does it mean not denying individuals their bodily autonomy if they choose to have body modification? After all, do we deny individuals the right to have facial tattoos, split their tongue, file their teeth, in order to satisfy their desire to look like a cat, lizard or alien?
I agree that NCA is a pleasure to listen to, both in what she says and in how she says it.