It sounds awful. Horrible where such behaviour is normalised. I hope the authorities will begin to crack down on it.
I realise nobody should be bullying or threatening anybody, but given the difference in physical strength between men and women, and (in my opinion) psychological differences between how men and women react to such behaviour (possibly due to socialisation) these patterns tend to be flagged as problematic when women begin to enter spaces that were traditionally very male.
I did wonder why she was in the male changing room. Can anyone cast light on that? I’m guessing it wasn’t by choice, but I don’t understand the set-up.
Also he’s 42. Hope for her sake, he’ll retire soon.