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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

International Day of the Girl

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PurgatoryOfPotholes · 12/10/2021 02:37

Today is the UN's International Day of the Girl. Unless you're a committed feminist, you probably won't have heard about it. The Old Lady of Threadneedle Street didn't put up any lights, and there won't have been any promotional traffic crossings.

Here's why there should have been something, especially this year. The International Day of the Girl is intended to draw attention to the issue of forced marriage, or, to put it another way, sexual enslavement, and thanks to Covid, that issue is now worse than ever.

The COVID-19 pandemic is profoundly affecting the everyday lives of girls: their physical and mental health, their education, and the economic circumstances of their families and communities. Changes like these increase the likelihood ofchild marriage, and over the next decade, up to 10 million more girls will be at risk of becoming child brides as a result of the pandemic.

data.unicef.org/resources/covid-19-a-threat-to-progress-against-child-marriage/

The two biggest worldwide killers of girls aged between 15-19 are

  1. complications of pregnancy and childbirth, and
  2. self-harm.

Both issues are intimately connected to the forced marriage of girls, but we'll focus on the first.

FAIRFIELD, Conn. (Oct. 10, 2021) — More than an estimated 22,000 girls a year are dying from pregnancy and childbirth resulting from child marriage, new analysis from Save the Children released on International Day of the Girl reveals.

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Although nearly 80 million child marriages globally have been prevented in the last 25 years, progress had stalled even before the COVID-19 pandemic—which has only worsened inequalities that drive child marriage. With school closures, health services under strain or closed, and more families being pushed into poverty, women, and girls face an increased risk of violence during lengthy lockdowns. A further 10 million girls are now expected to marry by 2030,[1] leaving more girls at risk of dying.

President and CEO of Save the Children Janti Soeripto, said: “Child marriage is one of the worst and deadliest forms of sexual and gender-based violence against girls. Every year, millions are forced into wedlock with men who are often much older, robbing them of an opportunity to keep learning, be children, and in many cases, to survive.

“Childbirth is the number one killer of teenaged girls because their young bodies aren’t ready to bear children. The health risks of children having children cannot, and must not, be ignored. Governments must prioritize girls and ensure they’re protected from child marriage and premature childbirth-related deaths. This can only happen if girls have a say in the decisions that affect them.”

Continues: reliefweb.int/report/world/child-marriage-kills-more-60-girls-day

Over at the coverage here women.ncr-iran.org/2021/10/10/the-iranian-girl-child-is-the-youngest-victim-of-cruel-discriminations/

the writers say "Iranian girl children commit suicide due to forced marriage. Early and forced marriages are among the reasons for suicide among young women and girls in Iran" and list some of the girls under 19 who have died from suicide as a consequence of being subjected to forced marriage.

Save the Children has this list of aims.

  1. Raise girls’ voices by supporting their right to safe and meaningful participation in all public decision-making.

  2. Address immediate and ongoing risks of gender-based violence, including child marriage, by putting girls’ rights and gender equality at the center of COVID-19 and humanitarian responses, development policy, and broader efforts to build forward better.

  3. Guarantee the rights of all girls, including those impacted by different forms of inequality and discrimination (including on the basis of gender, race, disability, economic background, etc.), by developing inclusive policies and programs. Safe and ethical data collection must also be improved to better understand and respond in real-time to COVID-19’s impact on existing economic, climate, and conflict-related crises.

  4. Ensure the safe and unrestricted participation of female humanitarian staff in all humanitarian response efforts, including needs assessments and the design, implementation, and monitoring, and evaluation of all humanitarian services at every level.

  5. Join the Generation Equality movement, working to deliver on the Global Acceleration Plan for Gender Equality, which set a target to prevent nine million child marriages in five years.

What do you think?

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endofthelinefinally · 12/10/2021 05:34

I think this should be on the front page of every newspaper and on every talk show.
But it wont be, because it is only girls.

AnyOldPrion · 12/10/2021 05:42

Heartbreaking. If ever there was a cause that needed maximum publicity, this is it.

Crankyoldboiler · 12/10/2021 07:59

Has anyone asked Eddy Izzard if he's bought a new frock to celebrate? Then the international day of the girl will get on the BBC news.

oldwomanwhoruns · 12/10/2021 09:26

You are quoting from Save the Children - but this charity are Stonewall Champions (or they were, when the great SexMatters downloaded the list) sex-matters.org/stonewall-champions-list/

So presumably, they mean anyone-who-identifies-as-a-girl

Helleofabore · 12/10/2021 09:33

This really should be on every front page and every news program today.

Thank you purgatory for starting this thread.

Angrysaurus · 12/10/2021 13:46

God that's so sad and I completely agree need so much more attention.

Cailleach1 · 12/10/2021 14:00

The only mention of this I have come across is a day of the girl picture David Beckham shared of him with his daughter.

It is not because of need and marginalisation that those other events are promoted. It is because of the power of the people involved that their interests/ wants are boomed into every corner of public life.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2021 14:05

You are quoting from Save the Children - but this charity are Stonewall Champions

Stonewall Champions, but not exactly champions of women and girls:

https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2020/mar/05/save-the-children-let-down-staff-and-public-over-sexual-misconduct-claims

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 12/10/2021 17:00

Makes me wonder what they mean by "raise girls' voices" then. Angry

And "female humanitarian staff".

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TheWeeDonkey · 12/10/2021 17:08

Thanks for starting this thread Purgatory you open my eyes to so many things.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 12/10/2021 17:09

@Cailleach1

The only mention of this I have come across is a day of the girl picture David Beckham shared of him with his daughter.

It is not because of need and marginalisation that those other events are promoted. It is because of the power of the people involved that their interests/ wants are boomed into every corner of public life.

That's about the level of publicity I've seen too.

It's worse than pointless, because without any actual facts supplied, it will just make people wonder where the Day of the Boy is.

Meanwhile, using pre-Covid figures, 12 million girls are "married" off every year. That works out at 22 girls a minute, I think. I'm a slow typist, so that's another 44 girls since I started this post.

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PurgatoryOfPotholes · 12/10/2021 17:22

@TheWeeDonkey

Thanks for starting this thread Purgatory you open my eyes to so many things.
Thank you! I try, ever since current political events woke me up to the possibility that these facts and figures weren't actually general knowledge.
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MassiveHoard · 12/10/2021 17:27

Thanks for sharing. The silence in place of moral outrage is deafening.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 12/10/2021 17:34

Thank you Purgatory. Those statistics are shocking.

KittenKong · 12/10/2021 17:38

@endofthelinefinally

I think this should be on the front page of every newspaper and on every talk show. But it wont be, because it is only girls.
I agree. I only knew because I saw it on UN twitter feed. Which is funny because they have an extended definition of ‘girl and woman’.
ArabellaScott · 12/10/2021 17:49

Of course this should be front page news. I sometimes think people just don't want to hear about VAWG because it's so upsetting.

Or of course they are too shallow and self centred.

Thanks for the post, OP.

Shedbuilder · 12/10/2021 17:55

Thank you for this, Purgatory. Sometimes we need reminding how ruddy lucky we are. I will publicise this elsewhere and try to get word out.

Shall we try and big it up next year?

Reptar · 12/10/2021 20:57

We could do with a board calendar.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 12/10/2021 21:13

Last year, I resolved to make a big thing of it for 2021. I didn't quite manage it though... It really needs to be a group effort.

I've done more than the Bank of England, but that's, um, faint praise!

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yourhairiswinterfire · 12/10/2021 21:41

Adding my thanks too, Purgatory. Utterly heartbreaking.

Your post has reminded me of this video I saw a while ago, hope you don't mind me posting it here.

FemaleAndLearning · 12/10/2021 23:43

Those statistics are awful. I too had not heard of this so thanks for raising awareness. So many girls I just can't get my head round it.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 13/10/2021 09:12

UNICEF estimates that coronavirus-related schools closures and disruptions to aid programmes mean a further two million girls are now at risk of being circumcised before the end of the decade, bringing the total number [of girls at risk] to 70 million.

The rise has been observed in the majority of the 30 countries in which the practice is common.

www.euronews.com/2021/02/06/fgm-covid-19-pandemic-thought-to-have-sparked-a-rise-in-female-genital-mutilations-say-exp

Across the world, *200 million women and girls( are already living with the effects of FGM.

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PurgatoryOfPotholes · 11/10/2022 14:39

Bumping for International Day of the Girl 2022

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ArabellaScott · 11/10/2022 15:59

Thanks, OP. We can look forward to all the street celebrations, flag flying, marches and speeches from govt, then?

FemaleAndLearning · 11/10/2022 16:27

I'm guessing the second paragraph doesn't count in the Western world.www.un.org/en/observances/girl-child-day

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