Domestic violence they don't care not enough people care. They see you as rubbish they tread on, you not human being to them just a drain on their time and money.
People getting fed up of me maybe but I'm going down fighting for other victims who maybe have chance in future if things were changed. Too late to for me to rebuild my life now. Want to try hard to speak out as much as when still alive.
Probably some of you think I'm mental. Am traumatised and as much trauma from experiences of trying to get help, as from physical violenc but not mental.
My case not just me. It's happening like this for other victims. Many won't get murdered but will be forced to live with the risk and fear everyday cos places won't help and nowhere safe to live so trapped.. If not murdered, they'll be regularly abused and maybe more injuries and definitely mentally damaged.
Cos places meant to help some so good kind people but I despair of it ever getting better safer for women if there's a denial of how mixed and not good enough too often the help is.
They not all saints people working in domestic abuse services and big postcode lottery if any good or not. Some do so much to help. Wonderful kind people and if only all of them were like them. Problem is some others fail women badly. Not always their fault. Funding not enough but sometimes is more than that. Some are not good people or bad at the job maybe both sometimes. When try to speak out, nowhere wants to know. Safeguarding fails all the other place, they're rife and when try to report no one wants to know.
There's no cqc or Ofsted type inspection. Nothing to check quality of support. You advised by legal helplines to take it further but how can vulnerable women at risk of being killed, follow a compliant to the top. They take advantage of you being vulnerable. Not safe when violent man might find out.
Worse of all hundred percent worse than police is local councils. Housing departments in particular but social services and othev services too. Some good wonderful ones but many couldn't give flying shit. They treat like a piece of rubbish that can thrown away and treated in a psychologically abusive manners. They lie and massively break laws and get away with it. They happy taking gamble on if woman will get killed. They hope you just destroyed mentally or physically instead or kill yourself. Cos then if woman is killed, they try to victim blame or lessons will learn lie they always say.
Many places don't give a shit. They do all they can do to not help. Go out of their way to break the law. They relieved if you suicide cos they get away with not helping, breaking law, no following guidelines, and they get to blame victim for being "mental".
Lots of law already here no new ones needed as much as enforcing the ones we already hhave that are meant to pprotect women and girls victim of violence. Just problem is enforcing them.
Violence against women won't change. WWhere's the safe rehousing for victim's? Often nnowhere safe to go so many go back. Some of the councils behave like abusers. They gaslight and lie.
I post about it but people don't seem to want to believe me or maybe some do bbut assume it's not common experience . Look at how many domestic violence murders every week. How many tried to get help but were turned away or let down?