A significant portion of society is in the process of renegotiating those expectations to try and make life better for people who don’t fit the entrenched moulds - whether as a gender-non-confirming person, or as a trans person.
This is bollocks.
We are now at the point where it is considered "cool" and "progressive" to assume a short-haired girl who visibly doesn't care about her appearance any more than a stereotypical boy would be expected to, either identifies as a boy or as non-binary.
Do you know what the short word for this is? Offensive.
I am sick to death of people reifying sex role stereotypes and patting themselves on the back for it. How dare you parasite off gender non-conforming people and lump them in with people who deliberately live by sex-role stereotypes- just of the opposite sex?
Sick to death! I've known a lot of people who objected to girls wearing boys' clothes - and you know what? None of them were feminists. In fact, they have become trans activists, because it fits in with their view that liking pink is an innate quality girls should have, and that there is something wrong with girls who don't!
Well, I don't like pink, I don't particularly conform, and I am happy that I have full sexual function, the capacity for sexual pleasure, and full fertility so that I get to choose whether or not to have children. I know I could have been easily convinced that there was something wrong with me for not fitting in, and I could have asked to change myself to fit in; to go on puberty blockers, to the detriment of my future health.
I've seen people ask what stake I can possibly have in this debate. Well, of course I do! It is called compassion, altruism, and sisterhood with angry teenage girls today. I would like other girls of this generation to have the same options in adult life. A 40% chance of having a vaginal prolapse post elective hysterectomy looks a tad shite to me. www.oxfordgynaecology.com/conditions-we-treat/vaginal-prolapse/post-hysterectomy-vault-prolapse/
Then there's the brittle bones from the puberty blockers. www.statnews.com/2017/02/02/lupron-puberty-children-health-problems/
I find it hard to believe that a treatment that has been in use for this length of time is so clearly the wrong choice for the majority of people being prescribed it.
Do you find it so hard? It's simple enough. Look inside yourself. What did you get out of hurried copy-and-pasting a google result you haven't read, that didn't address the outcomes for the demographic of patients today? You knew what side you wanted to be on, and you hopefully looked for the information that supported that. Then in this very thread, someone else seized on it, because they thought it said what they wanted to hear. They gave you positive feedback for submitting it. Around and around it goes, until to openly disagree becomes akin to choosing to martyr oneself out of principle. Few people are that brave.
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I think it is a problem that GIDS clinicians are making decisions that will have a major impact on children and young people’s bodies and on their lives, potentially the rest of their lives, without a robust evidence base. GIDS clinicians tell children and families that puberty blockers/hormone blocks are “fully reversible” but the reality is no one knows what the impacts are on children’s brains so how is it possible to make this claim? It is also a problem that GIDS clinicians are afraid of raising their concerns for fear of being labelled transphobic by colleagues. [bold mine]
I worked at the Leeds GIDS clinic as a Band 7 Clinical Psychologist between October 2017 and October 2018. Shortly after starting at GIDS I was in a meeting with three other GIDS clinicians. I said that it was curious to me that there had been so little discussion on gender identity in the field of psychology. In all my years of studying and working in psychology (including the Doctorate in Clinical Psychology) there had been very little mention of gender identity.
I also spoke about how it was interesting to me that I had been a Research Assistant on a Medical Research Council funded longitudinal research study on child development (Wirral Child Health and Development Study) that had commenced in 2007 and that gender identity had not been part of the investigation. I said that it feels as though the gender identity issue has come out of the blue. This attempt to try to explore the context resulted in my questions being described as “transphobic” by one of my colleagues, X.
Several weeks later when X and I had a joint meeting with senior staff X claimed that in the above meeting I had said that transgenderism was a trait of personality disorder. I had said nothing of the sort. I have never thought transgenderism is a kind of personality disorder and would never have said this.
The above meeting was called in response to a disagreement that I had with X over the two cases that we had seen together. As this is an open letter I cannot go into the details of my disagreements with X over these cases but in both cases I felt that X was too quick to recommend the medical pathway and I did not believe there was a current clinical need for puberty blockers in either case.
It was also surreal at the time to be arguing with X that a child’s early interest in [a certain children’s toy] should have no bearing on whether they are diagnosed with gender dysphoria. [bold mine]
In the same meetings with senior staff I also raised the issue of the aforementioned incident where X called me transphobic and another incident where she called me transphobic. The second incident was during a meeting of several clinicians where we were discussing a case of two young transmen who said that they were planning to [embark on something that, at the very least, would have serious health risks]. I had said that I believed that this needed to go to social care due to the risks involved and I believe that X called me transphobic for saying this. [bold mine]
In the meeting with senior staff X denied calling me transphobic and said that she had directed this allegation to colleague Y because she thought that that Y had said that any transpeople [embarking on xxxx] should be reported to social care. I do not remember Y saying this at all. As as far as I’m aware there were no repercussions for X calling either myself or Y transphobic when neither of us was being transphobic.
Continues: medium.com/@kirstyentwistle/an-open-letter-to-dr-polly-carmichael-from-a-former-gids-clinician-53c541276b8d
Since then, the Safeguarding Lead at the Tavi has successfully sued them for not letting her do her job of safeguarding children.