When referring specifically to desisters and the tiny proportion of detransitioners
We don’t know what the proportion of detransitioners is, because these females are only just hitting their late teens/early 20s. It’s another unknown.
many of whom, I should point out, cite the same issues that I and those in my cohort struggled with in our late teens and early twenties in their reason for detransitioning: i.e, that existing in a world that hates you is hard - we're referring to a tiny fraction of vulnerable, often very confused people who manage to cheatsheet or otherwise trick themselves into embarking on what is otherwise an extremely effective and carefully managed treatment pathway.
This sails very close to the wind to blaming these children for gaming the system. If it’s a carefully managed pathway, how is it that children who shouldn’t get hormone treatments end up on hormone treatments? How do you ensure they’re the right children?
Or find that their feelings on gender change over time, or even find themselves caught up in movements that seek them out and actively encourage them to detransition while telling them how courageous and brave they are and how any doubts they might be experiencing are the side effects of those nasty chemicals. No, this isn't hyperbole - this happens. I've seen it happen, repeatedly. I've lost friends to it, sometimes for years at a time. Sometimes forever. I've seen people bounce back from it, and I've seen people get swept up in it, disappearing into a cloud of misanthropy, cynicism and rage that takes years to unsnarl, and sometimes never does.
So children are simultaneously fully cognisant of the decisions they’re making if they choose puberty blockers and wrong sex hormones, but if they desist, they’re being negatively influenced by external sources? Righty-o
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So do you or do you not think it’s possible that children might change their minds when they’re adults?