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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

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FrankButchersDickieBow · 01/08/2021 00:41

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4311179-To-think-my-children-and-I-shouldnt-be-exposed-to-perversions-on-ITV-during-prime-family-TV-time

Actually not sure if this is a TAAT and will be not allowed, but I am perplexed by the apologists on this thread.

Women who object to a pixelated penis on a family show, have been called Puritans, Mary Whitehouse, pearl clutches, even a 'Karen' in there - you know, all the usual tropes when women are trying to protect their own boundaries and more importantly, the boundaries of children.

I have found it absolutely infuriating.

A lot of support, but also a lot of women minimising this shit.

OP posts:
picklemewalnuts · 01/08/2021 15:02

It feels to me like attention seeking and a dominance display, forcing themself on our notice. It's the equivalent of that threatening head jerk when you walk past someone and they try and make you jump.

Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 15:03

@OldTurtleNewShell

Someone waggling their genitals, pixilated or not, has no place on a TV show that's aimed at children I can't believe I have to say that.
Quite.
Threewheeler1 · 01/08/2021 15:13

Yep, read the thread earlier & found some of the responses so grim. Bit jaw dropping how utterly naive and shortsighted some of the posters are about the pushing of boundaries & erosion of safeguarding generally.
And throw in the usual claims of being a 'prude' etc etc if you don't clap your hands and say it's all good, harmless fun that, according to a couple of posters, actually educates kids!? WTF?
You made some really excellent comments on it OP.

andyoldlabour · 01/08/2021 15:19

I see it as the media trying to normalise and legitimise flashing.
That as far as I am concerned, is a very slippery slope to be going down.

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 01/08/2021 15:30

There is nothing wrong with nudity.

But there is a time and a place and I would no more want to see someone posing like that on television than I would want to see someone sitting like than on the bus. I am certain I wouldn’t want that in front of my young relatives.

And I’ve no pearls to clutch.
But whatever that programme is, they want to think on.

Any loophole in a storm by the look of it. Turn off and a turn off for that show.

Coyoacan · 01/08/2021 16:08

I remember many years ago, when my dd was twelve, there was a Tom Cruise film on telly advertised as family viewing and it was about young Tom turning his house into a brothel and using his teenage female friends as prostitutes. That was not the idea of sex that I wanted my twelve year old to have, funnily enough. It is not about prudery, it is wanting them to grow up with a healthy idea of sex

KimikosNightmare · 01/08/2021 17:03

The results of the poll support the poster. I think part of the problem was the poster's writing style ("fun family entertainment" and unnecessary exclamation marks)

Many of the replies support the poster although the posts against her are a full bingo card of trite, hackneyed, mindless phrases posted by posters thinking they're being so original and witty. And the usual crew who can't distinguish between a beach and every other situation which isn't a beach. They are embarrassing.

clickychicky · 01/08/2021 17:35

I would be uncomfortable if it happened in person so not ok on a programme of that sort.

Crockof · 01/08/2021 17:40

Surely it is flashing, an offence? It wasn't pixilated for the camera operator, or the editor. It is perverse to flash your dick around. Using your dick as a comedy prop is distasteful amongst adults. It is perverse amongst families.

Makeupyourmind · 01/08/2021 20:53

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clickychicky · 01/08/2021 20:56

you're right it's weird and grim and you shouldn't be made to feel in the wrong for feeling like that

Chickenyhead · 01/08/2021 21:08

I can cope with the tiny little picture above. But my children seeing that on a huge HD TV...

SuperSange · 01/08/2021 21:24

I saw it too; so did my 7 year old. Totally unnecessary.

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