this quote from Joyce's book really spoke to me
Body-denialism also offers young women a way to supress the rage and shame that they can feel at being physically weaker than men, and vulnerable to rape
I've lived with my female body for a long time now and am pretty reconciled to the good and bad things it's brought me, but yes, I did feel that shame and rage as a young teenager.
female bodies are real, and they convey real challenges to their occupants