When I was university there was a mature student whom the female students joked looked a bit like a photo off Crimewatch and whom we all found a bit creepy. We told ourselves that we were being judgemental and tried to overlook our first impressions and laugh off creepy behaviour. The male students were right onto him and had no qualms about saying he was a sex offender and calling out his behaviour. Anyway, to cut a long story short, after a few months he was chucked out of university for some deeply concerning behaviour around female students, and it turned out he had been in prison for rape.
I'm troubled by the increasing accusations of moral panic, hysteria and uptight judgement that are thrown at women. Far from leaping to condemnation, women are in fact conditioned to not assume, not judge, to question our instincts, to not be so silly; but sometimes we just know. We also know that if we vocalise our concerns we will be the ones condemned. The woman in the Wi Spa video was refreshing because she was rare, but even though the incident couldn't have been more clear-cut the woman was still dismissed as hysterical over nothing.
The gender ideologues who want women to get over their discomfort think they are saying something very new, they think we need to be liberated from our uptightness, but it's the same old same old. What we actually need is a world that we know will pay attention when we voice our doubts about a man.