I am so glad to the this is finally be examined in the academic press.
It absolutely is the case that using “mothers and parents” is linguistic nonsense. If we meant mothers and fathers we would usually say that or just “parents”. I am also against breastfeeding support and maternity care being aimed at “families”, because it is the mother who carries and births the baby and has the choice to breastfeed or not. The role of the rest of the “family” is to support her in her choices but the mother must be centred, it is her body and her prerogative.
The use of such supposedly inclusive language puts breastfeeding counsellors, peer supporters, and those working in maternity services in the position of “educating” the general public about gender identity theory and queer theory. By extension it is likely to be the perception of the general public that these theories are being promoted by those who should in fact be neutral and apolitical in order to serve the widest possible audience. As yet we don’t know how many mothers will be alienated and put off seeking support. We may risk offending, upsetting and disempowering far, far more women than the trans identifying people who are expected to benefit from the changes.
The most sensible approach is to use sex based language as default but tailor language to suit individuals where necessary. If it is deemed a reasonable use of resources then information and publications should be duplicated in the language of gender identity and queer theory to be offered to those who require it. The language of gender identity and queer theory should not be imposed on the majority.