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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Article by Lauren Black

22 replies

CeriBlack · 24/06/2021 15:57

My wife wrote a thing and I'm so freaking proud of her! It has the phrase "porn addled robot people" in it, lol, and also a bit about me, and about her dysphoria.

Enjoy!

lesbianandgaynews.com/2021/06/lauren-black-gloves-off-im-going-to-talk-about-how-dysphoria-plus-the-gingerbread-model-plus-pornography-leads-to-the-creation-of-who-i-call-porn-addled-robot-people/

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Imnobody4 · 24/06/2021 16:07

Thanks for posting - very interesting

littlbrowndog · 24/06/2021 16:08

Thank your wife for this powerful writing

👏👏👏

She sounds brave and thoughtful

beblind · 24/06/2021 16:10

Wonderfully moving-powerful words

NeedNewKnees · 24/06/2021 16:11

Thank you for sharing that, Ceri. Lauren sounds a brave and resilient woman.

HavelockVetinari · 24/06/2021 16:15

Fab! Really well written Star

Helleofabore · 24/06/2021 16:15

Thanks Ceri. It is wonderful to get these updates from you.

And thanks Lauren for continuing to keep the conversation going!!

Particularly for standing up for the young people with statements like this about the Gingerbread model.

It’s offensive, two dimensional, entirely lacking in any depth or understanding. I could laugh at it, if I wasn’t so furious about what this cheerful, lying, cartoonified oversimplification is doing to the brains of the (mostly gay) young people it harms.

Brava! Flowers for you both!

ferretface · 24/06/2021 16:21

This is a wonderful, powerful piece of writing!

lazylinguist · 24/06/2021 16:21

That is a really wonderful, powerful piece of writing. I'm not surprised you're proud of her! I hope lots and lots of people read it.

Mycatismadeofstringcheese · 24/06/2021 16:28

What a powerful piece of writing. Bravo.

CardinalLolzy · 24/06/2021 16:31

I think you posted a while ago with another piece she'd written - I remember it being a really good piece then too!

AgathaMystery · 24/06/2021 16:43

Wow. This is so powerful and so beautiful.

I hope so many young women get to read this piece. Huge love to you both x

AnotherLass · 24/06/2021 16:54

This is brilliant.

JoyousAsOtters · 24/06/2021 17:06

I loved this, thank you for posting the link. I have heard dysphoric individuals refer to their bodies as a 'meat sack' and I have found it so horrific that they could be so dissociated and hate themselves so much.

I was especially moved by this section of the article:
You can’t pull these pieces of me apart and separate them from their origins, as if I were made of component parts, like a robot, an android. I am made of my body, my history, my way of being in the world. I am a whole, integrated, authentic human, not a bunch of robotics components. Not a disparate collection of body parts and identities, a customisable avatar. It’s offensive to my sensibilities to suggest it

PaperMonster · 24/06/2021 17:46

Beautiful piece of writing.

MsHighwater · 24/06/2021 17:50

Nice one. Great piece of writing. I find the description of dysphoria fascinating though I can completely understand how challenging it must have been to write.

WarriorN · 24/06/2021 17:58

A wonderful piece thank you Lauren and thanks Ceri for sharing.

I've just read this elsewhere and came to post it immediately!

So much pain, I can completely understand where her dysphoria comes from from her description, it must be hard to describe it so honestly. ❤️

TheElementsSong · 25/06/2021 10:24

Just wanted to pop in and say how powerful and beautifully written this piece was! Flowers to Lauren and Ceri Flowers

Ghislainedefeligonde · 25/06/2021 13:59

Amazing article, so well written and must have taken a lot to write it. Thank you Lauren and Ceri Flowers
I hope it is as widely read as it deserves to be

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 28/06/2021 17:37

Thanks for this - I only came across it today and started another thread saying how good it is.

Hopeishere52 · 28/06/2021 17:55

An insightful,well written and moving article, thank you for sharing

MenopausalMargot · 28/06/2021 19:10

Brilliant. Superb writing!

MintTeaLady · 28/06/2021 19:47

I absolutely love this. So powerful and touching. NI based too, yay! X

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