It is something I am starting to feel brave enough to discuss with my friends, and we’re all on the same page. It’s definitely not something I feel able to raise with people I don’t know very well, and trust.
But we’re constantly questioning ourselves.
We wonder - are we just over the hill? Out of touch? Not down the kids anymore? Dinosaurs? On the wrong side of history?
I don’t know. It doesn’t feel like it, but I’m made to question myself about it a lot.
It’s also really discombobulating to be truly left-leaning politically, a feminist, an LGB-ally (my beloved DB is gay) - but to be framed as a ‘conservative bigot’ on this issue.
I’m not a bigot because I care about women and girls. Alternatively - why aren’t people who want to throw women’s hard-won rights under the bus ‘bigots’?