@stumbledin
I kind of agree with a lot of what you’re saying, despite the fact that I’m also a person diagnosed with ADHD in a not dissimilar manner to the person in the Guardian article (Google>Reddit>Book>Psychiatrist).
So, one thing to discuss is, what is a disorder anyway? It IS a context dependent thing. In a society without writing, no one has dyslexia. Does that mean dyslexia doesn’t exist? Should we abolish writing systems where they exist because they make some people dyslexic? Perhaps ADHD is only a struggle because of the type of society we live in, and it’s a particular problem for women because of the extreme expectations placed on them. (There are some theories that ADHD could have been an adaptive trait in hunter gatherer societies etc......). Well, one partial solution seems to be that we diagnose the people who struggle in this particular way, so that we can give those people help, and it so happens that ADHD is quite easy to help with. That doesn’t need to prevent political action that could improve things for women though. I’m not convinced the two things have to be mutually exclusive.
In terms of the validity of the disorder, maybe it’s also worth noting that of all the in your head conditions I have been diagnosed with, ADHD was the only one where I had to clear a bar of getting someone else to report on my symptoms.
In the ADHD community, there is also a tension around whether it’s even a disorder not because it might not exist but because some people like to characterise it as a superpower. And for some people in some circumstances, there does seem to be some power conferred by the condition, like creativity. But for others, that characterisation does a huge disservice to what is mostly a big struggle, because in the world as it is, most people aren’t really granted the opportunities for ADHD to ever become a superpower.
But I do agree that stuff like this has taken on a bit of an apolitical self absorbed aspect which I really don’t like. I also confess to being suspicious that some people might be faking or misunderstanding things and I’m concerned about that. This is a selfish perspective and it’s because I feel like it diminishes my own I think fairly serious challenges. ADHD isn’t a mental health condition, but when it comes to mental health I’ve noticed that “mental health issues” now seems to be synonymous with “difficult events I have gone through”. I think, again, that’s not quite right. Mental health problems might be associated with bad events, but often they are not. Bad events mostly do not cause mental health problems. My own mental health condition (not ADHD) has very little to do with any kind of emotional stuff. I don’t “need to talk” about it unless it’s in an extremely structured clinical setting. I don’t usually mention my conditions in real life anymore than you would mention asthma or diabetes. I’ve never told an employer.
Personally I want to see the remedicalisation of some things and more emphasis on the real genetic and biological underpinnings of mental health conditions and of neurodivergence. I want the gates kept my the medical profession and a bit less openness, confessionals and sharing of feelings. For that to be fair, though, we also need a lot more access to the medical profession and the medical profession needs to live up to our expectations (eg by not being sexist). I’m currently on an 18 month waiting list and I can sort of see why someone might go ahead and self diagnose in those circumstances. With enough access to psychiatry, and with psychiatry backed by high quality research, it wouldn’t matter if people wrongly self diagnose on TikTok because they would still end up in the right place. And there wouldn’t be any incentives to hand out diagnoses to a paying customer, because people wouldn’t need to pay to get around insane waiting lists.