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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Virginia Woolf

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Heidi1982 · 29/05/2021 15:28

This is the sign outside Virginia Woolf's cottage in Sussex, where she wrote some of her most famous works. The National Trust chose to put her husband's name first on the sign even though she is by far the more famous of the two of them. A lovely country walk and pub lunch was rather spoilt by some feminist rage and I will be writing to the NT pointing out the unthinking misogyny.

Virginia Woolf
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MrsTerryPratchett · 29/05/2021 15:35

That's annoying. Would Leonard Woolf even get a plaque without Virginia? I doubt it. It's 'traditional' to have men's names first but she was not a traditional writer so why observe that.

SunnydaleClassProtector99 · 29/05/2021 15:40

Perhaps you need to pop a sticker on.
"A plaque of one's own".

theotherfossilsister · 29/05/2021 15:40

I think that's why they have her name in full after his? Like she is Virginia Woolf he is just Leonard.

Love her books. Did dissertation on ttlh a d she's a wonderful wonderful writer.

Pyewackect · 29/05/2021 15:43

I think you need to get some more fresh and calm down.

theotherfossilsister · 29/05/2021 15:44

Sorry, I'm not sure if the way I phrased my post made sense. What I mean is she has her full name so like, I don't know if it does but a plaque might say Frieda and David Herbert Lawrence (Frieda Lawrence would deserve recognition but she is not as well know as dh.) I think the more famous should have their name before the surname.

TeaAndStrumpets · 29/05/2021 16:13

Maybe a plaque each?

FindTheTruth · 29/05/2021 16:22

Big plaque for Virginia Woolf only or add a little one for Leonard

MrsTerryPratchett · 29/05/2021 16:28

@FindTheTruth

Big plaque for Virginia Woolf only or add a little one for Leonard
Sounds fair. Although I still think he wouldn't have even a little plaque without her.
FaintlyMacabre · 29/05/2021 16:47

Sounds about right for the National Trust. When we joined, DH wasn’t even there, I filled in the forms and put my name first, also gave them my email address which contains my first name.
Every email from them ‘Dear DH name’. Grrr. I keep forgetting to complain.

Heidi1982 · 29/05/2021 17:10

@SunnydaleClassProtector99

Perhaps you need to pop a sticker on. "A plaque of one's own".
Brilliant!
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Heidi1982 · 29/05/2021 17:13

@theotherfossilsister

Sorry, I'm not sure if the way I phrased my post made sense. What I mean is she has her full name so like, I don't know if it does but a plaque might say Frieda and David Herbert Lawrence (Frieda Lawrence would deserve recognition but she is not as well know as dh.) I think the more famous should have their name before the surname.
Maybe, but unless someone can provide an example of this the other way round I'm afraid I don't think I can give the NT the benefit of the doubt.
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Heidi1982 · 29/05/2021 17:16

I wouldn't be surprised if male equivalents get something like "DH Lawrence and his wife Freda". So "Virginia Woolf and her husband Leonard" would be ok.

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igivein · 29/05/2021 17:16

How about ‘Home of Virginia Woolf and her husband Leonard’?

igivein · 29/05/2021 17:17

Sorry, cross post
(Great minds and all that)

Heidi1982 · 29/05/2021 17:17

@igivein

How about ‘Home of Virginia Woolf and her husband Leonard’?
Great minds!
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thinkingaboutLangCleg · 29/05/2021 17:17

Yes! Definitely needs ‘a plaque of one’s own’. Or why not “home of Virginia Woolf and her husband Leonard”.

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 29/05/2021 17:18

OMG, it’s the notorious Mumsnet hive mind at work!

MrsTerryPratchett · 29/05/2021 17:20

@thinkingaboutLangCleg

OMG, it’s the notorious Mumsnet hive mind at work!
ASSIMILATE
HecatesCatsInFancyHats · 29/05/2021 17:41

@SunnydaleClassProtector99

Perhaps you need to pop a sticker on. "A plaque of one's own".
👌
Heidi1982 · 29/05/2021 19:46

No surprise, the NT websites for properties belonging to notable male writers Coleridge and George Bernard Shaw make no mention of their wives who lived with them.

Compare and contrast:
www.nationaltrust.org.uk/shaws-corner

www.nationaltrust.org.uk/coleridge-cottage

www.nationaltrust.org.uk/monks-house

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