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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Feeling a little hopeful

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Rushhomeroad · 21/05/2021 00:43

I don't post on here often, but wanted to say that I attended a virtual RSE meeting at my daughters school today. Started a little wobbly when they were asked if the classes would be mixed, and a teacher confirmed they would be mixed gender. However, despite them being 'advised' by Stonewall previously, I'm quietly optimistic when they said they will not be teaching gender identity - if a child asks a question they will give age appropriate definitions but nothing further. When asked if they may add gender identity to the curriculum, they said any change would have to go through consultation. I've been really worried as my daughter does not conform to gender stereotypes, and her old school told me that the new school were good at transitioning students as they'd done it quite a few times. I made it very clear they were not to talk to her about transitioning (as she is perfectly happy with short hair and comfy clothes), which they haven't, but there was still a nagging worry. This meeting has given me a little hope - they even displayed the RSE government quote which was reassuring that they had read and acknowledged it. I plan to follow up with an email to the Head of PSHE, but I just wanted to tell someone that I'm feeling hopeful (working in Education doesn't allow me much freedom to talk about this).

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FlyPassed · 21/05/2021 08:13

Excellent news. Keep on them, though. I would still ask to see lesson plans, and ask your daughter about what's she's actually being taught. The school needs to know that parents are watching.

ArabellaScott · 21/05/2021 12:11

Good to hear it, OP.

There has been some progress on understanding that gender doesn't equal sex, I think. Mad that it has ever got so muddled.

Rushhomeroad · 21/05/2021 12:44

@FlyPassed

Excellent news. Keep on them, though. I would still ask to see lesson plans, and ask your daughter about what's she's actually being taught. The school needs to know that parents are watching.
I will keep on them, it feels like you can't turn your back for a minute. Luckily, my daughter is very good at telling me what goes on at school (including how they have decided that the mixed sex toilets have been self segregated - boys first two cubicles, girls end two cubicles and no-one uses the middle one unless very desperate! This is year 5 children that figured it out for themselves - sad that they had to) and she told me if they tell her in class you can change sex she's going to tell them you can't - I have explained it's best to just tell me so I can sort it out, but she's being assessed for autism and I'm not sure subtlety is her strong point! Thank you to everyone on this board - you're all amazing.
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FindTheTruth · 21/05/2021 13:26

I made it very clear they were not to talk to her about transitioning (as she is perfectly happy with short hair and comfy clothes), which they haven't, but there was still a nagging worry.

❤️OP, you're the best parent she could have and the school response is hopeful. you know about the danger, have acted on it and kept her safe xxx.

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