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Agoraphobic mum-to-be forced to go to hospital for the birth

259 replies

UppityPuppity · 13/05/2021 21:48

Judge states she doesn’t have the capacity to decide to have a home birth.

Not enough information to form a view about the supposed risks, except that I am so sad for her and wish her and the baby well.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-57108649

OP posts:
NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 20:02

The only info we have is still in the OP right?

The judge has significant stated that proportionate force can be used on a woman due to give birth.

Why do you think that with mental health issues that severe, it's somehow ridiculous to think that if she knows what's going to happen, then she may take any number of extreme actions out of desperation.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 20:03

If there is more info then sorry- can you point me to it?

None of us have many facts at hand about all this at all. Unless more info has been published.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 20:06

Just had a Google. She does know- she was at the proceedings with her partner via video link.

Why is it ridiculous to think she might try something desperate? I don't get it.

Frazzledfranny · 17/05/2021 20:06

@NiceGerbil

This really bothers me.

We don't know if she has a high risk pregnancy. It's hinted at but not stated.

This part:

'He concluded that "proportionate" force could be used by specially-trained staff if she refused to leave home on a specified day near her due date.'

What level of force is proportionate on a woman who is at full term? The fact he said that means that they know she will refuse. That if they try to what. Carry her out? Push her? She will struggle. So what the hell does that mean? That bothers me.

Also it's a specified day near her due date. I went 42+2. If they come and use proportionate force to take her. She could be in hosp for weeks. She will be extremely distressed. Obviously. How will they keep her there? Guard the room? And isn't that going to push her mental health over the edge potentially?

Why on earth don't they say. We'll come round and sedate you. Your family will come with you. You will have a C-section and we will keep you sedated and have someone come and look after you at home. You won't even remember leaving. Was that on the table? And resource-wise that's less than having a room which has to be watched and possibly managing a woman who is heavily pregnant and probably terrified, having a massive mental health episode.

The woman is let's face it likely to have a massive breakdown of some sort and assuming she can keep the baby it's hardly a great start to motherhood. That will cause issues.

Judges make awful decisions especially when it comes to women all the time. I find it interesting there's so much faith in the system being shown on the thread.

All of this. Great post
humanitariancisis · 17/05/2021 20:45

*And the idea that need to get a tube down to sedate someone is arse about face. The statement was to sedate someone you need to intubate and get at least one cannula in. That's not true. Statements like that can scare people reading posts for all sorts of reasons.

I've been sedated plenty of times. In no instance did they put a tube down my airway first.

When people have an anaesthetic they conk them out before intubating. Intubating a person who was conscious and aware would be extraordinarily distressing.*

Goodness, if only someone had invested time a few pages back writing a long post about why elective dental sedation is not the same situation as this.

MissBarbary · 17/05/2021 20:58

@NiceGerbil

Missbarbary it is misogyny to suggest that women would be getting late term abortions left right and centre.

She'd have to go to hosp for an abortion anyway so it's irrelevant here.

I didn't say woman did have late term abortions "left, right and centre". Please do not invent things.

I assume however you are aware that some posters on here support the idea of abortion on demand to term. I don't; I also don't support the right to insist on a "birth plan" which is irrational, illogical and dangerous to the point it might result in death or serious injury to a baby.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 21:03

Human and did you see how that poster about faced when I pointed out that the posts were inaccurate. And could potentially scare women reading.

You have no idea what I've been sedated for. I think I may have even put it on the thread. I'll check. If I did, then you're calling me an idiot without reading what I've written.

If it was you who posted those things then apologies I don't remember names and I think we are not going to agree.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 21:11

Oh lol there were two posters and one of them was human.

Why are you talking about yourself in the 3rd person?!

'Goodness, if only someone had invested time a few pages back writing a long post about why elective dental sedation is not the same situation as this.'

You mean you and another poster Grin that's quite odd/ funny.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 21:12

MissBarabary and if the alternative is death or serious injury to the mother?

humanitariancisis · 17/05/2021 21:14

I don’t call people names on the internet (or in real life), You have mentioned several times that you’ve had sedation for dental procedures, which is why I’ve drawn the comparison.

Just to reiterate my previous post, with italics for new emphasis

14/05/2021 07:31 humanitariancisis

So the whole cannula / intubation thing then is incorrect. You don't need to do that to sedate someone.

For the sake of clarity, in a general sense, you do not need a cannula or intubation to give “sedation”. In the same way that you do not need to go onto cardiopulmonary bypass to have an “operation”. But if you are in a situation where you need to have a complex cardiology operation, going on bypass would be necessary, and it would not be safe or appropriate to use the same anaesthetic and surgical techniques that would apply to someone having a dental extraction.

Sedation is a spectrum of altered consciousness and the drugs, monitoring and interventions required to make it safe depend on a combination of the patient’s own risk factors, the level of sedation required and the reason for the sedation (including the likely duration, how easy it would be to stop halfway through or convert to GA etc). ^As I said in a previous post, women at term have additional risk factors for sedation and anaesthesia, particularly those who are significantly overweight. These risks include difficult airway management, difficult intravenous access, and a significantly increased metabolic rate and therefore oxygen consumption. The average time between “conking out” for a GA and desaturation to a point of hypoxia in a woman at term is in the region of 30-120 seconds, and that is after pre-oxygenation.

You might get lucky and be able to give this lady a guesstimate slug of either oral or IM drugs and hit a sweet spot of conscious sedation, and have the good fortune that she does not need re-dosing en route and / or if she does she maintains an airway and doesn’t aspirate. Or, you could be unlucky and cause a hypoxic cardiac arrest in the back of an ambulance. Whatever your anaesthetic plan is needs to be something you can justify in coroner’s court in the worst case scenario - it would be difficult to justify uncontrolled sedation in a home setting to a depth that would facilitate predictable cooperation with a long road transfer to a pregnant woman with additional health risks without at least a cannula^

This scenario is very different to elective dental surgery in a cooperative patient without risk factors.

If you need to have a procedure, and sedation is being considered, whether you are pregnant or not, you should discuss this directly with the person who would be giving the sedation so that you can give informed consent to it, in light of your health and the proposed sedation technique / procedure

humanitariancisis · 17/05/2021 21:20

I fully agree with you that it is possible to have sedation without a cannula.

I disagree with you that the scenario we’ve been discussing is directly comparable with dental sedation - for many reasons, which I’ve outlined above.

I think that because sedation is a complex area of practice, people who are thinking of having it should discuss their personal circumstances with a sedationist - and the message taken from this thread should be neither “all sedation requires intubation” nor “you don’t need intubation and / or a cannula for sedation”. It depends on many things.

Madwife123 · 17/05/2021 21:25

As a midwife this horrifies me. No matter how high risk her pregnancy, labour and birth are it’s her choice. The baby has no legal right to life until after birth so that should not be a consideration and women are perfectly able to refuse medical treatment for whatever reason they want. Agoraphobia does not mean she lacks capacity to make a decision and I hope there is more to this story as what has been published is a huge breech of her human rights. As to the partner agreeing with the judges decision. Maybe he should have considered this event before impregnating someone with a long-standing fear of leaving her home. He surely saw this coming!

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 22:09

'You have mentioned several times that you’ve had sedation for dental procedures, which is why I’ve drawn the comparison.'

I'd be surprised if I have because as far as I can remember i haven't. I'll read back and check if I gave the wrong impression anywhere.

MissBarbary · 17/05/2021 22:10

@NiceGerbil

MissBarabary and if the alternative is death or serious injury to the mother?
Why are you suggesting death would be a consequence for the mother if there is an intervention?

So far as other consequences- what about living with the fact her actions may have resulted in death or serious injury for the baby?

ChattyLion · 17/05/2021 22:10

Since it’s been mentioned, and though it’s off topic, I support safe, legal, accessible abortion, as early as possible and as late as necessary. On demand and to term in theory is OK by me- and which would be vanishingly rare in practice. Women and girls don’t have abortions for trivial reasons.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 22:15

Was it this?

Other poster

'
To sedate someone to the point that would be needed to take them to hospital, you need IV access - at least two cannulae, in case one falls out. You need heart, BP and oxygen saturation monitoring. You need to protect their airway by putting - at the very least - an airway support device into their mouth, and you may need to place a tube into their throat. How do you think that's going to go, if the patient is resisting?''

Me

'I never had all that when I was sedated. Dentists don't do all that.'

You're right that isn't clear. It's two points.

  1. I've never had that when sedated (intubation cannula etc)
  2. Dentists don't do all that either

I can see how that got confused.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 22:20

Oh that's a term I've not heard before!

Do we have sedationists on the NHS- I never knew! What settings are they in? Maybe dunno. Secure mental health facilities? Genuinely interested!

I was always sedated by the anaesthetist.

NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 22:22

It is off topic but I agree chatty.

In this case she'd have to go to hosp in the very unlikely circumstance that was her decision. And so she wouldn't do that because it would still mean leaving the house.

So it's totally irrelevant to this thread.

ChattyLion · 17/05/2021 22:35

Gerbil agreed and thanks.

humanitariancisis · 17/05/2021 23:01

*Do we have sedationists on the NHS- I never knew! What settings are they in? Maybe dunno. Secure mental health facilities? Genuinely interested!

I was always sedated by the anaesthetist.*

“Sedationist” is a general term to mean the person giving the sedation. In dental surgeries and in endoscopy or bronchoscopy suites for example the person administering sedation is most likely not an anaesthetist and sometimes not a doctor. (Gasteroenterologists historically gave their own sedation for out-patient scopes, and cardiologists for elective cardioversions - but sometimes nowadays nurse endoscopists might give the sedation for their own procedures under a patient group directive).

It’s also used particular in the context of “operator-sedationist” in a scenario where one person is simultaneously giving sedation and performing a procedure. Eg in p20 of the guidance below)

The Academy of Medical Royal Colleges publish comprehensive guidelines on Safe Sedation which might be of interest

www.aomrc.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Safe_Sedation_Practice_1213.pdf

Zzelda · 17/05/2021 23:09

@Madwife123

As a midwife this horrifies me. No matter how high risk her pregnancy, labour and birth are it’s her choice. The baby has no legal right to life until after birth so that should not be a consideration and women are perfectly able to refuse medical treatment for whatever reason they want. Agoraphobia does not mean she lacks capacity to make a decision and I hope there is more to this story as what has been published is a huge breech of her human rights. As to the partner agreeing with the judges decision. Maybe he should have considered this event before impregnating someone with a long-standing fear of leaving her home. He surely saw this coming!
But if her mental health is such that she is incapable of making a fully informed decision, there really isn't a choice. Suppose, for instance, that a mother has a heart condition that means that she should not go through labour but has formed a deluded belief that the doctors are conspiring and have made up the heart condition, despite having previously fully accepted it. That would be a case where mental health difficulties were preventing the mother from making a valid decision and the court would have to intervene.
NiceGerbil · 17/05/2021 23:36

That's really interesting human, thank you!

The bit about using doses which are too high for the patient was really interesting.

Love a bit of info!

NiceGerbil · 18/05/2021 00:11

Zzelda there's no need to give hypotheticals- the case in point has plenty to discuss.

Human I suppose my point is that.

We know very little about it.

The idea of using any level of force on a woman who is refusing to leave and is at term sounds really sort of escalatory.

The anticipation that she will refuse and physically resist is obviously seen by the judge as a given. And he says ok reasonable force.

But women who are at that stage of pregnancy are incredibly vulnerable physically. Not to mention her mental state.

So realistically. Ambulance turns up. She says no. She's got major MH issues, hasn't left the house in 4 years. Chances are she'll be terrified and panicking. She'll try to get away/ not be removed. I mean it's all speculation obviously. But the judgement including forgeable removal sounds like it's anticipated.

So how much force is ok to use on a woman who is due if she puts up a fight? What will the mental health impact be of her knowing this is going to happen and she can go quietly or be removed.

It really bothers me.

There must be something they can give her to calm her, to relax her, to make her woozy, to soften it. I can't believe that of all the drugs in the world there is literally nothing that can be given to just take the edge off this experience. And that is stated firmly in the absence really of any info about her physical health, what other drugs she may be on etc etc. And that physical force etc is the less risky option (which is a guess, who knows how she will react).

The other thing I just realised was I didn't see any comment from whoever is looking after her MH etc. She's had scans at home so she's obviously being supported. What were the MH people comments? We don't know.

Similarly it could say she'll be zoomed in, section, kept drugged until able to go home, zoomed home.

I mean none of us know.

I like to think that when it says get her to the hosp whatever before her due date it's a planned section but it doesn't say that. If that were the plan then it's a trivial thing to add.

The info we have from the story just makes me feel worried for her.

It may be fine it may not. None of us know.

I don't understand the posts being so definite though. She won't be able to care for the baby. The judge will have definitely made the right call. People with MH issues have force used on them all the time what's the problem. Thinking that her mental state might lead her to do something desperate is pure fantasy.

We don't know. Many of the posts here seen focussed on the baby. A pp said how could the woman be seriously harmed or die from this. She has severe mental health problems and from the little we know she's about to have a really traumatic experience. What effect that has on her could be, who knows. But it could be anything.

I'm just worried that's all. On what's reported it sounds potentially horrific and possibly dangerous for her.

That's where I'm coming from anyway.

namechangingforthis19586 · 18/05/2021 00:21

You will have a C-section and we will keep you sedated and have someone come and look after you at home. You won't even remember leaving.

I can't think many doctors would be happy to deliver a baby sedated up to the eyeballs to that degree, or to guarantee that the mother would be kept in that state until ready for discharge. She'd come home wholly unfit to care for her child and herself and possibly dependent on something or other.

So I hope that particular option wasn't on the table.

NiceGerbil · 18/05/2021 00:46

You didn't read my original post did you.

That was a precis.

Round here you go home after a CS after 36-48 hours. And morphine was certainly administered after a CS round here. And that does indeed make you feel... Fuzzy. Sort of unconcerned.

So now we have the idea that

Not only is it better to use physical force on a woman who it's presumed from the fact it was specifically mentioned suggests she will put up a fight.

But also that also assuming no complications she should be ? treated differently to other women? And definitely it's a bad idea to give her anything to reduce her reaction which could be, well anything really.

Why is there this certainly, knowing so little about it. That there's definitely no way to make this easier. And removing a woman who is at term, by force if necessary, then (CS? Or just keep her there till she goes into labour? We don't know). And then giving her any kind of medication to lessen her reaction to all if this.

Anyway you can read my posts if you want. About going home etc.

But nope nope. Any of that is s terrible idea. Using force against a heavily pregnant woman who could be panicking and doing whatever she can go stop them is definitely the only option.

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