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Suzanne Moore on Mumsnet 'radicalisation'

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TinyRebel · 17/04/2021 10:32

Personally, I was 'radicalised on Mumsnet, by chatting with and reading threads by intelligent women.
This from her 'Letters from Suzanne' emails:

"I got all radicalised without going on Mumsnet!!
Suzanne Moore
Apr 16

I am doing exactly what I said people should not do. That’s because I CAN. Having moaned a lot about Twatter I am responding to an article that I would not have seen were I not loon scrolling there.

An article by Katie J.M. Baker was being praised by women I like and have worked with. It was in Lux magazine /website which I thought might be about high end watches or some such but turns out to be short for ROSA LUXEMBURG. It professes itself to be “playful”. Did Rosa die for this? Apparently so.

Anyway this piece was by an American explaining why horrible British women are so horrible ie .transphobic. The evidence M’Lud : Mumsnet.

OK some definitions here or rather because I am indeed half-American shall we say proclamations?Transphobic now ceases to have much meaning just as ‘trans’ nowmeans little seeing as it now cover everything from cross-dressing, to full surgical transition to just thinking you might be a different gender to the one you appear to be. Thus phobes have their work cut out as who can really tell? I neither fear not am afraid of trans people but it’s too late now , the committee that decided this stuff decided it long ago.

It’salways shocking to have one’sown culture explainedespecially by reporters who don’t report, or talk to anyone who might disagree with them. That’s called being a columnist and I should know as I am one.

The thesis being rolled out here is that Mumsnet is where women get “radicalised”. Wow.Just why is it that so many English , Welsh , Scots and Irish women are so stroppy and do not accept trans ideology and are all vile TERFs unlike all lovely bi-coastal Americans? Why?

Well I don’t go on Mumsnet although I did a discussion for them years ago and it all seemed perfectly fine plus I got a goody bag. I will go anywhere for goody bag, that’s how radical I am.

Was it all white privileged types? No idea. It was pretty Guardiany if I had to guess. But the one thing these women had in common is that they all had children and they had found it helpful to talk to other women about this and then found they ended up talking about a lot of other stuff too.

Almost like actual people?!

Nothing like this existed when I had my first child and I found it all pretty lonely to be honest so I am glad it does now. Anyway Mumsnet women chatting is now a hotbed of radicalisation. I love this. Any decent journalist who has lived both here and in the States might understand the historical differences of our feminisms and there are many but hey why bother with suffrage, the law, the Equality Act, maternity leave when you can blame women chatting?

Yes its true there are threads on Mumsnet that are not happy about self-ID, about transwomen in prisons, toilets, refuges etc. Guess what a woman who has just had a baby may believe that biological sex is the real deal?She has just shoved another human being out of her own body and she may be feeling isolated and pooreras a result but find she is living in a society that says motherhood is the highest state she can achieve.

I have many friends who could not or chose not to have children but they also believe that biological sex is real. We have no differences there. I don’t know a single woman who has any personal prejudice against trans folk. I do know a lot of angry women who are fed up with being told that what we know, what we have lived, and that what we call ourselves is no longer valid. I didn’t need Mumsnet for that but well done Mumsnet if you have facilitated such discussions.

Motherhood is of course venerated and utterly despised. Motherfucker is a term of abuse although there are many mothers who fuck and people who fuck them.

So how I wonder did I manage to get radicalised all by myself with only a glance at Mumsnet?A quick starter for ten?

1)From very young I was told I could not do what boys did

2)Boys did things to me that I did not want them to do

3)My body did things I had no control over, from bleeding to conceiving

4)My insides did not match my outsides but isn’t that just how it is?

5)People came along and told me there was a special words for this. If I was not ‘trans’, I was ‘cis’ and I rejected this binary because the binary was the problem in the first place.

6)I want to keep my rights based on sex based legislation

7)I understand the difference between sex and gender because I am a materialist. Read some Marx if you don’t get my drift

8)It is not my job to affirm the identity of others. We exist in relation only to each other. You may define yourself as you so desire but I do not have to agree with your definitions. Tough titty.

  1. I know how hard women worked to have the rights we have and I will not stand by and watch them erased in the name of “inclusiveness”

10 I recognise what an ally is. If you think attacking Mumsnet furthers the cause of trans people then bully for you. Please name the rights that trans people do not have in the UK compared to the US. Be specific.Please talk about money too. Yes how much does to transition here as opposed to the States? Told you I was a materialist.

If women chatting without male mediation radicalises women I can only suggest we do it more. Mumsnet is not really my bag.

But StroppyCuntNet ™and I’m there."

OP posts:
PandorasMailbox · 17/04/2021 10:43

"If women chatting without male mediation radicalises women I can only suggest we do it more. Mumsnet is not really my bag

"But StroppyCuntNet ™and I’m there."

She's obviously not read AIBU Grin

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 17/04/2021 11:01

Good points. Being 'influenced' by the views of others is bound to chime with a social pressure group that communicates in slogans and chants of #NoDebate. Many of us posting on and reading this board found our way here because we were tired of having our experiences erased and our language and sex-based rights trampled on. We didn't arrive at that position because we were already visiting FWR and had our pretty little heads turned by the views of others.

There are few outlets in which this issue can be discussed. There's an effective campaign to silence it: the GC forum has been pulled from Reddit and discussion of anything other than the TWAW stance banned from the major Australian pregnancy and parenting sites, with numerous members kicked off.

Suzanne Moore is a trooper. I admire her direct, clear, to-the-point writing, not least the fact that she's prepared to stand and fall by her own principles. The sort of principles which, if uttered in public, result in the issuing of death threats and the status of persona non grata (i.e. death of your career).

Women being silenced. It was ever thus.

Wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 17/04/2021 11:02

I came here to fight in AIBU and stayed for the feminism.

And I'm a stroppy cunt.

Erkrie · 17/04/2021 11:02

It generally seems like an attempt to stuff women back in their 'box' and shut up. Even about the things that errode our rights and damage us. Frustrating for them that UK GC women refuse to back down no doubt. When the activists have managed a takeover of women's rights pretty much everywhere else.

That's not going to happen here though. UK GC feminists are powerful and the activists know it. And the more women realise this madness and start fighting back, the more powerful women as a whole become. This is why there's such an obsession with the activists watching what we're doing / mass reporting to get our voices silenced, and writing poorly written articles about the wrong uns here radicalising other women (and some men). They think if they can take us down on Mumsnet, where they perceive it all begins, then they will have won the battle.

I'm proud of the UK GC feminists and all that has been achieved, and will continue to be achieved. Because we won't ever be stopping.

PandorasMailbox · 17/04/2021 11:34

We won't ever stop and that's what scares the TRA.

I've been stalked, threatened and doxxed by them and all they've done is make me double down.

I'm not just a stroppy git, but am a stubborn cunt too Grin

persistentwoman · 17/04/2021 11:51

Good for her - love being a stubborn cunt.

It always makes me laugh that all our visitors pore over all the threads on here desperate to find fault (while having to read all these passionate, insightful and intelligent women centred posts). They have no clue that women will never be silenced. Not our thoughts, not our speech and not our feminism.

SapphosRock · 17/04/2021 12:56

Great article ⭐️

I think this point succinctly sums up what most FWR posters feel:

It is not my job to affirm the identity of others. We exist in relation only to each other. You may define yourself as you so desire but I do not have to agree with your definitions. Tough titty.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 17/04/2021 12:59

Recent thread about the shite article Suzanne is responding to which trashes MN:

Well, that's us told www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4218896-Well-thats-us-told

dratalanta · 17/04/2021 14:58

StroppyCuntNet

So that’s not the correct full name of FWR? My mistake.

AnyOldPrion · 17/04/2021 15:22

@PandorasMailbox

"If women chatting without male mediation radicalises women I can only suggest we do it more. Mumsnet is not really my bag

"But StroppyCuntNet ™and I’m there."

She's obviously not read AIBU Grin

Nor indeed Relationships, where StroppyCunt women help other women with less well developed StroppyCunt tendencies to grow them and escape from their crappy partnerships.
stumbledin · 17/04/2021 17:38

Isn't this the same article as the one being discussed here www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4218896-Well-thats-us-told or have they published two articles about the terribleness of mumsnet?!

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