I know. Threads here do get mired on that. But it helps to remember that toilets are ALWAYS brough up by 2 kinds of people
Posters as you seem to be - genuinely asking because it seems odd
TRAs - not NOT necessarily transpeople at al, just activists and people who want to stir up stuff, often taking closely edited snippets back to Twitter to crow over them.
I'll try...
But the debate on MN seems to centre mainly on the public toilets debate, however trivial you say it might be. And it seems to be based on the implication that trans women are a threat to women, when I don't believe that to be true. Sadly your belief is not born out by research and real life stories. I think someone has already quoted research that shows that women face 8 or 9 times the risk of violence in mixed sex toilets, changing rooms etc. That was, if I remember, based on reports of violence, real life occurences.
And you say 'transwomen' and most GC posters here would like to make the point that we don't think transwomen are dangerous to women per se but that many men do go to a lot of trouble to access women, children etc. There is nothing to stop ANY man from declaring himself female and taking advantage of the current 'acceptance without question' mantra.
Karen White
Katie Dolatowski
These are two transwomen who show how that can and does happen here in the UK. There are others but these two are quite recent and have enough written about them, laws being changed because of them to be easily found and read.
Men are a threat to women, including those who pretend to want to be women (and I'm not sure how many of these there are, but I suspect there are few of them). Yep! Which is why I asked you how many women were OK as collateral damage. And why my own answer these days is "no!"