Suzanne Moore's article has better expressed some of what I feel about younger women laughing at "those silly feminists":
This trot through history is something of an answer to the “what did the Romans ever do for us?” question that is sometimes asked by younger women of older women. It is not a rebuke, it is rather a reminder of what can be done when you harness political will to the concerns of ordinary women.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4199944-Suzanne-Moore-young-women-should-learn-from-older-generations
I forget the quote but there's something about if men like your feminism then it's not really feminism. Obviously for the Triggernometry watchers any talk about women's rights needs a lot of mollifying and ideally should be presented by someone young and attractive.
But now I'm reacting angrily which doesn't help. I feel like men and women need a Truth and Reconciliation Committee where we can talk honestly about violence against women, but not many men would want to be there. Sounds too much like school assembly. This is why I like Jackson Katz's approach - it's about male leadership and recognising when men are bystanders, condoning violence by not acting even if they aren't violent themselves.
Now wondering if it's racist to appropriate the problems in South Africa for women's problems? It affects all women and all men in the world so I think not. I recognise this started with horror and compassion at the fate of a young white woman which has not always been shown towards women victims of other backgrounds. Trevor Noah's book was really interesting on race and violence in SA but I need to seek out some female stories from there.
I'll shut up now!