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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Dennis Kavanagh Thread on identity and consumerism

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Tootsweets23 · 03/03/2021 11:56

This may have been posted elsewhere but he's done two excellent threads on the unsatisfactory lies that have been fed to young people by corporate identity organisations. How so much of these movements are about money not improving happiness or addressing the complexities of young people's lives.

This is the first one mobile.twitter.com/Jebadoo2/status/1364899988036329472

And this is the second threadreaderapp.com/thread/1366153717611954176.html

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RedToothBrush · 03/03/2021 12:05

The second one is particularly good...

RedToothBrush · 03/03/2021 12:12

I'm struck by this point about the need to present a happy family, media friendly happy ever after result.

Im just reading the 3 father thread and that chimes with this too. And with the trans widow / sibling / child set up too. And the detransitioner.

The picture perfect wholesome alterative family where everyone is happy.

Anyone unhappy is labelled bigotted or regressive. They are erased from the picture if they raise difficult questions or problems.

In marketing drugs and surgery to make profit the side effects and harms have been deliberately removed.

The ethical wisdom of this is pain to see - it does not exist.

People are being sold a lie. Air brushed from insta and twitter.

Kit19 · 03/03/2021 12:17

Both threads are excellent. He's absolutely right - people who have bad experiences from within the LGBTQ community are marginalised for not following the all one big happy glitter family narrative. No deviation from that appears to be allowed because big corporate brands dont pay for that do they? they pay for rainbows and sparkles and unicorns

sourdoughismyreligion · 03/03/2021 13:07

Reminds me of a scene from Watership Down.

''They knew well enough what was happening. But even to themselves they pretended that all was well, for the food was good, they were protected, they had nothing to fear but the one fear; and that struck here and there, never enough at a time to drive them away. ....

And since they could not bear the truth, these singers, who might in some other place have been wise, were squeezed under the terrible weight of the warren's secret until they gulped out fine folly - about dignity and acquiescence, and anything else that could make believe that the rabbit loved the shining wire. But one strict rule they had; oh yes, the strictest. No one must ever ask where another rabbit was and anyone who asked, ''where?'' - except in a song or a poem - must be silenced. To say ''Where?'' wwas bad enough, but to speak openly of the wires - that was intolerable. For that they would scratch and kill''.

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