I don't think it's so bad, or even a problem, for writers of adult fiction, especially women's fiction. I read a lot and there is no whiff of woke language in recently released books I've read. Women and men are named as such; babies are born as boys and girls. Women get pregnant, have miscarriages, die in childbirth. Girls and women have to look out for male sexual predators. I've never met a transwoman in the books I've read, and no doubt that will change one day and then we will have to change our language and watch our step.
I think it's mostly journalists, YA and children's writers, and writers of non-fiction that are affected.
I was once in a Facebook group of editors. Somebody posted a list of "old-fashioned" terms such as woman and man, male and female, and a corresponding list of terms everyone should replace these words with in future.
I responded with a comment saying that any editor who flagged my language in this way and demanded such changes would see themselves out the door in a wink. The comment was followed by a flood of angry faces and then I was booted from the site.
Can you just imagine future books; the titles alone:
Little Uterus-Havers
The Menstruator on the Train
Gone Vagina-Owner.
Not to mention the content, for example romance:
"They saw a uterus owner across the crowded ballroom. They strode purposefully through the throng and clasped them in their arms. They swooned in ecstasy and lifted their lips, ready for a passionate embrace. The penis-holder whispered in their ear: Your chest is so beautiful! You are the breeder of my dreams!"