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Surrogate born Chinese girl without birth certificate - mother is blamed

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OhHolyJesus · 13/01/2021 19:09

This is a detailed story so I post the full text below, but the headlines are: the surrogate mother contracted syphilis in the surrogate mothers home, the commissioning parents cancelled their order and went onto have twin boys. To due to the cost of giving birth and to cope financially the surrogate mother sold the baby girl's birth certificate on the black market which means she is unregistered and cannot go to school. The biological father has come forward and something is being done. People blame the surrogate mother.

I have learnt that a Hukou is an official document issued by the Chinese government, certifying that the holder is a legal resident of a particular area. Without a hukou, the child cannot attend kindergarten, and will not be able to go to school – she will be a heihaizi ( lit. ‘black child’), an ‘illegal child’ not registered anywhere.

TEXT - I took out a bit which was about a film made about surrogacy as it is already really long...

The tragic story of a 3-year-old girl born through surrogacy is top trending on Chinese social media today, where the child is referred to as the ‘unregistered surrogacy girl’.
The child was meant to grow up with her two biological parents, but when the surrogate mother tested positive for a syphilis infection halfway through the pregnancy, the intended parents canceled the surrogacy agreement. The story was told in a short video report by Chinese news outlet The Paper. The poverty-stricken surrogate mother ended up having the baby herself, but could not afford her bills and sold the baby’s birth certificate. The biological parents have refused to take responsibility for the girl. Without her formal papers and household registration, the 3-year-old girl cannot go to school and is not registered anywhere.
The story starts in 2016 when the then 38-year-old Wu Chuanchuan (吴川川, alias) became a surrogate mother as a way to earn money. The older couple who wanted a baby came from Inner Mongolia and had previously lost a child. (In the interview, Wu claims she is actually younger than the age indicated on her official papers, which say she is now 47.) The surrogacy agreement, arranged through an underground company, was settled at 170,000 yuan ($26,200). It concerned a gestational surrogacy, in which the child is not biologically related to the surrogate mother. During the pregnancy, Wu was living together with other surrogate mothers. When she was four months pregnant, she unexpectedly tested positive for syphilis. Wu says she suspects that the infection was spread within the small surrogacy mother community she lived in. Syphilis in pregnant women is risky and can have a major impact on the baby’s health. It can cause miscarriage, stillbirth, or death as a result of the infection as a newborn. “The intended parents decided to withdraw from the surrogacy arrangement, asking for a refund and offering to pay for an abortion.”

Due to syphilis, the intended parents of the baby decided to withdraw from the surrogacy arrangement, asking for a refund and offering to pay for an abortion. Wu would only receive 20,000 yuan ($3085). This situation left Wu, who already felt the fetus moving, in a very difficult situation. She eventually refused to terminate the pregnancy and withdrew from the surrogacy agency’s home. Staying at cheap hotels in the city of Chengdu and unable to find a suitable adoption family, Wu eventually gave birth to a baby girl that she would raise herself. But there was one major issue: money. Wu already could not afford the hospital admittance fee, let alone the 12,000 yuan ($1850) in hospital bills she had to pay after needing a C-section delivery. To pay for her medical bills, Wu was forced to take desperate measures and ended up selling her baby’s birth certificate. Through the internet’s black market, she found someone who would pay 20,000 yuan ($3085) for it. Once the baby was born, things looked up for Wu. She soon married a kind man who was willing to raise baby girl ‘Xiao Rang’ (小让, alias) together with her, and the child’s congenital syphilis was cured. But Xiao Rang still had no birth certificate, and thus no hukou. Wu and Xiao Rang, screenshot from The Paper video report. The hukou or ‘household registration’ system is a registered permanent residence policy. A hukou is assigned at birth based on one’s community and family. China’s hukou system, amongst others, separates rural from urban citizens and is essential to access social services, including education and healthcare. Without a hukou, the child cannot attend kindergarten, and will not be able to go to school – she will be a heihaizi ( lit. ‘black child’), an ‘illegal child’ not registered anywhere. In December of 2020, as reported by The Paper, Wu traveled from Chengdu to Inner Mongolia in search of her daughter’s biological parents. The girl’s intended parents turned out to have twin sons now. They bought a house and went through the process to get their twins through another surrogate mother. After spending approximately 700,000 yuan ($108,000), the family allegedly could not afford to also be legally responsible for Xiao Rang. Afraid of the consequences, the 50-year-old biological father initially also seemed unwilling to formally arrange adoption papers for his daughter, Wu told Time Weekly.

Due to the media attention, and the biological father’s identity being exposed, the case was still developing while Chinese netizens looked on. According to the latest reports, Xiao Rang’s biological father will now provide assistance in arranging registration papers for the little girl while Wu Chuanchuan will still raise the child. The fact that the father himself came forward to tell his side of the story also became a trending topic (#遭退单代孕女童生物学父亲现身#), garnering over 260 million views by Tuesday night Beijing time. The biological father confirms that they gave up on the baby once they were informed of Wu’s syphilis infection, and that they did not expect Wu to have the baby after all. Meanwhile, on social media, there seems to have been a shift in sentiments regarding this story. Netizens initially sided with the surrogate mother and her tragic story. But as the media continue to report on this story, more and more people are starting to doubt Wu’s sincerity, wondering if she used media exposure to portray herself as a victim to gain the public’s sympathy. Online commenters criticize Wu for being part of the surrogacy agreement, for choosing to have the child despite her syphilis, and for selling the child’s birth certificate. Many call her ‘immoral’ and ‘irresponsible.’ “Surrogacy exploits women, and it is a serious violation of social ethics and morals. Taking part in surrogacy should be severely punished.” Nevertheless, the practice of surrogacy is a somewhat legislative grey area in China. China’s Ministry of Health introduced regulations in 2001 that made it illegal for medical staff to offer surrogacy services. In 2015, there were official plans to completely curb surrogate pregnancies. But that strict ban on surrogacy pregnancies was later reversed. In 2017, People’s Daily even published a controversial article that suggested a loosening of surrogacy bans to boost China’s birth rates. Meanwhile, there have been ongoing reports about China’s booming underground surrogacy market (here, here ). In 2018, state media outlet Global Times quoted Qiu Renzong, a bioethics expert at the Chinese Academy of Social Science in saying: “The Chinese government should consider setting some rules to allow surrogacy in certain circumstances.” With discussions on Xiao Rang’s case and surrogacy in China being a major topic on Weibo, the legal side is also receiving much attention. Law expert Zhang San (@普法达人张三) uses the hashtag “Criminalize Surrogacy” (#建议代孕入刑#) when he writes: “Although surrogacy is illegal, it is a blank space in the criminal law. Surrogacy exploits women, and it is a serious violation of social ethics and morals. Taking part in surrogacy should be severely punished. If the freedom is not restricted, it will surely lead to exploitation of the weak by the strong.” Some people on Weibo argue that most of the people involved in Xiao Rang’s story are filthy and immoral, and that they need to be punished. But virtually everyone agrees that the little girl needs to be registered in order to still have a chance to lead a normal life: “The child is innocent.” By Manya Koetse

Read more at: www.whatsonweibo.com/nobodys-baby-chinese-girl-in-canceled-surrogacy-agreement-case-has-no-birth-certificate-no-hukou/

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JellySlice · 13/01/2021 19:59

Surrogacy exploits women, and it is a serious violation of social ethics and morals. Taking part in surrogacy should be severely punished.

A long as they refer to punishing the commissioners, agents and facilitators, but not the surrogate mothers. Make commissioning surrogacy illegal. Do not make being a pregnant woman illegal.

MoiCnoi · 13/01/2021 22:16

Oh yikes. The more I read about surrogacy, the more I cannot see how it can ever be anything but dangerous and exploitative in a world where so many women are vulnerable.

PlantMam · 13/01/2021 23:19

Fuck me. I rarely feel rage at the internet but I am RAGING at this. Commissioning parents who change their mind mid pregnancy should be legally obliged to pay all the mothers medical costs, followed by child support to the age of majority, like other absentee parents

(Well, surrogacy being banned worldwide would be better but in the mean time...)

Wu sounds like a formidable woman. I hope she and her daughter Xiao Rang have a beautiful life together. Fuck the biological ‘family’.

MichelleScarn · 13/01/2021 23:25

@PlantMam

Fuck me. I rarely feel rage at the internet but I am RAGING at this. Commissioning parents who change their mind mid pregnancy should be legally obliged to pay all the mothers medical costs, followed by child support to the age of majority, like other absentee parents

(Well, surrogacy being banned worldwide would be better but in the mean time...)

Wu sounds like a formidable woman. I hope she and her daughter Xiao Rang have a beautiful life together. Fuck the biological ‘family’.

All of this. The fucking RAGE i feel at those who commission a body and what it can provide, as they cannot, but see everything as expendable if it doesn't work with their insta perfect image is unwrittable. Anyone who supports this shite under the umbrella of choice hang your fucking head in shame
Viviennemary · 13/01/2021 23:28

Surrogacy is quite wrong. Exactly because of situations like this. A child isn't a commodity to be bought and paid for.

DifficultBloodyWoman · 14/01/2021 00:55

criminalize surrogacy

That makes it sound as though they want to criminalize the surrogates rather than the commissioning parents. That wouldn’t surprise me.

Surrogacy should be outlawed but without criminalizing the poor women that have been pushed into it.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 14/01/2021 05:45

It's appalling. What a tragic story. The biological parents have behaved disgracefully.

Surrogacy is exploitative of women and needs to be stopped with severe consequences for the commissioning "parents" and agencies who facilitate them.

VikingVolva · 14/01/2021 07:52

I think people will blame her for selling the birth certificate. That's on her. Lots of grinding poverty in China (unimaginable to Europe) but selling a child's identity, and therefore whole future, is something people recoil from. And wouldn't necessarily have a clue how to find the sort of trafficker who would pay.

It's a mess all through, isn't it? The mother's age is possibly wrong, her health status only tested late, and the fixers an underground organisation. The commissioning parents 'older' and bereaved - possibly of their only, given the recent one-child policy.

It's a recipe for disaster, and either clear abolition or proper regulation is needed.

Even with abolition, this sorry chain of events could have happened, given that it was 'underground' in the first place. That there is an outcry over the child's future, and that she should have a proper future despite her identity being taken and sold, is the heartening part.

FannyCann · 14/01/2021 08:08

Thanks for posting OP. The sort of story that doesn't attract much media attention in a country where our media are in thrall to the joys of surrogacy and the rights of would be parents to commission a baby to order in the name of "fertility equality".
The middle class woman doing this for a best friend or relative in the UK may feel her actions have no relevance to the dark underside of the industry in countries the other side of the world, but they do. It all helps to normalise the idea that wombs are for rent, babies are for sale, and this is where it leads.

OhHolyJesus · 14/01/2021 08:42

I search for these stories specifically as we see the opposite narrative in the U.K. media and it's always interesting to see what laws operate in other countries and how the media there presents it.

I would be very interested in anyone who knows of any surrogacy arrangements in the U.K. going wrong or the surrogate mother regretting her involvement.

The commissioning parents went on to have twins boys, presumably using another woman's body (and another's eggs?). The boys will probably never know their sister.

The surrogate mother who is the mother of this child can't have any legal rights if she has nothing to prove it? The birth certificate is pretty important so she must have been desperate to have sold it, though I don't think she should have done that, maybe it was a way to get the commissioning parents involved again?

With all the adults making demands, payments and bad decisions you can only feel for the little girl caught up in it all.

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Delphinium20 · 15/01/2021 02:27

The commissioning parents went on to have twins boys, presumably using another woman's body (and another's eggs?). The boys will probably never know their sister.

Thanks for pointing this out - knowing one's family seems to be denied so many of these children - especially as they may live in different countries, possibly with different languages and never knowing they have siblings. It's a wild west in most parts of the world regarding regulation of gamete donation. It will be interesting to see how this little girl feels once she's an adult and if she will be aware of her extended biological family.

OhHolyJesus · 15/01/2021 15:08

Exactly Delphinium

I'm hoping that Pipah Farnell in Australia finds her brother Gammy in Thailand one day. Since their paedophile father is now dead and the legal mother of Pipah might be more open to a reunion?

I can only hope. I imagine as a twin you would feel the absence of you're sinking more keenly and grow up with a feeling that something was missing. Maybe this will be attributed to her dead father when actually it's because a hole was created when they were separated.

So far the media has gone on both children which is probably a blessing for the mothers, but it's all recorded so it will just take a bit of Googling one day.

Imagine Pipah finding that out that way? Awful.

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