We always have to ask ourselves: cui bono?
When one group of people has been historically disadvantaged by another group of people, when it has been oppressed, controlled and abused to a truly inhuman degree by that other group, and when that oppression, control and abuse is still ongoing, who benefits when the first group is denied the right to set its own boundaries that exclude all members of the other group, to access spaces and services specifically set aside for this group only, to meet with other members of the same group with none of the oppressor group present, the right even to name itself?
Who benefits?
Women - the ones who are not closing their eyes to reality, at least - know only too well how it feels to belong to a group whose members are actually, verifiably, vulnerable, disadvantaged and marginalised in a plethora of ways, to a greater or lesser extent all over the world, still now. And these things are never intended to benefit us, now, are they?