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Ban virginity tests

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NonnyMouse1337 · 12/12/2020 06:57

New thread in petitions board. Please share widely.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/petitions_noticeboard/4104315-Ban-Virginity-Tests

Virginity testing is a long-standing practice in the UK. In the 1970s it was reportedly carried out by immigration officials on women arriving from the Indian sub-continent to marry their British-Asian fiancés.

Now, exclusively carried out by private clinics the extent to which virginity testing goes on in the UK is unknown. However, a BBC Newsbeat investigation in 2020 identified at least 21 clinics offering such tests, as well as hymen repair surgery, costing between £1,500-£3,000, should the girl or woman fail the test. A similar investigation was also conducted by The Sunday Times which said “‘Restoring virgins’ is a big earner for British surgeons”.

Tragically, failed virginity tests can result in violence, sexual assault, banishment from the community and even honour killings. This is not something that just goes on abroad. This is a very real British problem.

The Middle Eastern Women & Society Organisation (MEWSo) is calling on the UK Government, the National Health Service and its agencies, private health clinics, health professionals and associations, local authorities and relevant voluntary organisations across the UK to put this ban into practice.

However, to ensure this practice is permanently stopped and not just driven underground, the Government, and all the agencies mentioned above, also need to make a commitment to educate health professionals, communities and school children about the myths that surround a woman’s virginity.

There also needs to be services in place to intervene and protect women and girls trying to assert their right to not be violated in this way, and who subsequently face very real dangers to their health and, in some cases, to their lives.

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Nomnomarrgh · 12/12/2020 07:09

Signed

HeadPain · 12/12/2020 07:20

I was going to post this today. www.bbc.co.uk/news/newsbeat-55078634

Controversial 'virginity tests' sold by UK clinics
By Rachel Stonehouse
Newsbeat

Published27 November

"Women are being offered controversial "virginity tests" at British medical clinics, an investigation by BBC Newsbeat and 100 Women has found.

The intrusive tests are considered a violation of human rights by the World Health Organization (WHO) and United Nations, which want to see them banned.

Critics say they are unscientific, cannot prove whether someone is a virgin and can be a form of abuse.

The tests involve a vaginal examination to check if the hymen is intact.

The BBC investigation found a number of private clinics advertising "virginity repair" which, when contacted, then also offered the so-called virginity test for between £150 and £300.

The BBC identified 21 clinics and managed to make inquiries with 16 of them, seven confirmed they offer "virginity testing" and several others would not clarify their position.

All said they would carry out hymen-repair surgery, which costs in the region of £1,500 to £3,000. Data from NHS England shows 69 hymen-repair procedures have been carried out in the past five years.

Newsbeat has heard the story of one woman helped by the charity Karma Nirvana, which supports victims of so-called honour-based abuse and forced marriage.

"I had a very emotionally abusive relationship with my parents who wanted me to have an arranged marriage," she says.

'Running away was my only option'
"One day, an elder in the community saw me out with my friends and said to my mum that one of the boys was my boyfriend. There were lots of rumours in the community about it."

She was then threatened with a "virginity test" by her parents.

"My parents and the family of the man they wanted me to marry said I had to have a virginity test to prove I was still a virgin so the marriage could go ahead.

"I was scared and didn't really understand what it meant. I felt running away was my only option - so that's what I did."

Priya Manota manages the helpline for Karma Nirvana.

"We have received calls from girls who are concerned about this. It might be that they are worried their families have found out perhaps they've been in a relationship or they're not a virgin. It might be family are pressuring them to go through with tests and they are concerned about the outcome of that.

"Triggers for honour-based abuse and forced marriage are being in a relationship, choosing your own partner and being in an intimate or sexual relationship. We know at the charity many victims in extreme cases have been killed. For other victims it might be they are disowned by family."

Virginity testing is known to be practised in at least 20 countries, according to WHO, which says there is no evidence that it can prove whether a woman or girl has had sex or not. This is because the hymen can tear for many reasons, including tampon use and exercise.

Last year, US rapper T.I. sparked outrage after admitting during a podcast he takes his daughter for a test every year to check her hymen is still intact.

Tweezers and fake blood
Meanwhile, the BBC has also found hymen-repair kits being sold online for £50, which claim to restore virginity.

One kit purchased for £104 arrived from Germany. It contained 60ml of vagina tightening gel, plastic tweezers, a blood capsule and three sachets that appear to contain fake blood. There were no instructions on how to use the kit.

Dr Ashfaq Khan is a gynaecologist who regularly gets requests from patients for virginity testing and hymen repair.

"I don't understand why it is not illegal in the UK, it should be made illegal," he says.

"The whole idea the absence of part of the hymen means you're not a virgin is wrong first of all. It can be torn for various reasons, and if I was to say 'it is torn, I need to repair it' and then I can give you a certificate, that means I am giving a false certificate."

'Educate our communities'
He believes more action against the practice is needed.

"The same way we push FGM [female genital mutilation] issues brilliantly, as world leaders highlighting the problem of FGM," he tells Newsbeat.

"And to me this is another crime - and we are associating ourselves with a procedure which is ethically and morally not correct."

Earlier this year, the Middle Eastern Women and Society Organisation started a campaign to ban "virginity testing", and called for more education around the topic.

Founder Halaleh Taheri said: "Although we would like to eventually ban hymen repair, banning the practice without proper education will only do more harm than good. The only reason these practices are in business is because of this backward mentality concerning virginity.

"If we were to help educate our communities and to reverse this belief, then there would be no need for hymen reconstruction. It would go out of business on its own."

BBC 100 Women names 100 influential and inspirational women each year and shares their stories. Find us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, and use #BBC100Women. "

HeadPain · 12/12/2020 07:23

Signed. How come it's not on the parliament petition site though, where MPs are forced to respond to and debate the topic in parliament if it gets a certain amount of signatures?

NonnyMouse1337 · 12/12/2020 07:44

HeadPain I think because the petition is aimed at various organisations like NHS and not just the government. A parliamentary petition seems like a better idea to me, but maybe they felt they would get more exposure this way. I got an automated email from the Change.org about it else I would haven't heard of the group.

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CousinKrispy · 12/12/2020 08:55

Thank you for sharing this.

tilder · 12/12/2020 09:02

Data from NHS England shows 69 hymen-repair procedures have been carried out in the past five years.

Does this mean 69 procedures total across the country or 69 by the NHS itself?

Signed in a minute. Was reading the thread in horror and need to go back to the link up thread for signing.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 12/12/2020 09:56

I found an article or post on here a few months ago which said virginity is a social construct very interesting

I’ve signed the petition

Just horrendous that things like this are happening in the uk with very few people realising

PurpleHoodie · 12/12/2020 19:28

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