I think they should be available for women/girls if they want them.
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Unsure if that was necessary, but can imagine my post might be a bit graphic for some from here on..
However, that said I have taken those pills before, at 16. I did it in a medical setting and for that I am so glad, the pain..now that I have been through labour, was actually worse than that. I was really ill. There was a lot of blood, and we had to pee in those sick trays you get in hospitals and leave it for a nurse to check so they could see if the material had came out or not..as we were not allowed to leave util it had as otherwise if it was retained more than a few hours apparently it could be very dangerous. There was a LOT of focus on making sure women did not leave until everything was gone, if anything it seemed the main focus rather than making sure we were ok tbh. Not to police women, but this part of it scares me a little, if it was true that its dangerous to not have everything out within a few hours? Yeah women can check this themselves, but are they told to? And would they even know what they were looking for? (like, tmi maybe but I thught I passed it all, but apparently it was only half of what needed to come ut?! Not sure how that works but they said that and yeah, an hour later a bunch more came so they were right)
All that said, still my main problem with it all was that the psychiatrist person was 'off' the day I took my pills, either of them though I was told its the first one thats actually important, and there is no going back after the first, like its no good changing your mind right before the second. but yeah, the mental health was NOT there. I dont think I would have made a different decision, but support wold have been good.
Maybe things have changed. Surely they must have, if its ok to do this at home now. Or the hospital I was at were very OTT or something? Not sure.
How ill women were on that day will never leave me. I did kind of go into it thinking it wuld be quiet easy and simple and got a shock. Could have been a bad day or something, not sure. But people were vomitting, passing out and so on. It seems dangerous to 'allow' this at home. At the same time, I don't feel right saying do not allow it, as a lot of women/girls might benefit from it. So final position is probably, allow it if its wanted tbh.
After writing all of this, I do wonder if maybe I was past 10 weeks? And its all a lot easier before 10 weeks? Its all a bit of a haze, but when I found out I was 7 weeks apparently, and things seemed to go very quickly from there. It seemed like it was all in a week, though I cannot be sure.