I think that the comments were bigoted but also totally in line with what you’d expect from an evangelical Christian. They’re not generally big fans of gay clergy or women clergy so it’s not that surprising to find they’re not happy with transgender clergy.
’The evangelical describing the marriage of anyone other than two heterosexuals as the result of “evil and wickedness”
That’s blatant bigotry. I also wouldn’t rule out my (former) marriage being a direct result of evil and wickedness and it was heterosexual.
The stuff that really gets to me is this.
‘I felt that [his comments] were leading to personal harm to myself, my wife, and the others in the video.’
‘It made me feel very unsafe.’
Be angry, be upset, be disappointed, be unsurprised by the comments given the source. I’d say any or all of those reactions would be justified. Don’t treat words as actual violence or throw around ‘made me feel unsafe’ when what you mean is ‘made me feel upset.’