AskingQuestionsAllTheTime thank you for those amusing anecdotes!
As for Pullman, that's hardly a unique reaction to women's rights issues amongst men, especially men that age. My dad's view was that we were all being hysterical rather than silly. Given my public activism, meetings with politicians etc he did reconsider at some point, and I did manage to eventually explain the negative impact of transgender ideology and legislation on women's rights to him (using the Scottish law designed to ensure equal representation on public boards), but then he went and forgot it all again. So, honestly, I'm not even going to bother explaining it again. Because he's not the problem. At least not in my view.
Now Pullman does have reach my father doesn't, but he's still not the problem in my view. He has a much right to his opinion as I do, and anyone who thinks we're being silly is much more likely to underestimate us and let us get on with it than those trying to stop us discussing the issue.
So while I understand why his remarks may annoy others, I just don't care enough about him to get annoyed, too.