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US elections. Where is my constituency (i.e women)?

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Yellownotblue · 30/09/2020 22:30

I’ll start by saying I’m not American, and therefore I don’t have a constituency as such. But, I’m Canadian, British and have mixed race kids, so I’m as invested in it as any American 😁

There are obviously loads of Americans who are single issue voters (the single issue usually being guns/abortion). Nothing can be done to sway these voters.

Still, in the last election 52% white women and 68% white men voted for Trump. In itself this is a terrible indictment of white American men, who mostly managed to demonstrate they are unable to get behind and support a woman (HRC). I honestly don’t know how white men can ever redeem themselves for that. The fact that tho has been largely been swept under the carpet is bewildering.

Leaving white men aside, there are a few percentage points of the white women vote up for grabs, and this could sway the election. White women have been polling low for Trump this time. Still, I was struck by how the presidential debate had nothing to offer women. I don’t think Trump mentioned women a single time. It’s as if we don’t exist. How come this is acceptable?

To be clear - I’m emphasising white voters here, because the overwhelming majority of black and Latino voters voted Democrat last time, as in all the previous elections, and therefore there is a feeling (for better or for worse) that their vote is in the bag for the Democrats. I can’t imagine that changing now, especially after this awful debate.

So the issue is, where are the decent white men? And how come white women don’t matter in this election, that they are entirely left out of the debate issues?

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Goosefoot · 30/09/2020 23:05

So, I think that voting behaviour is actually a lot different than people sometimes think. Most people are used to voting, fairly often, for someone they think has certain bad ideas, or immoral behaviours, or where they really disagree with certain things they do.

At the same time, most people have a few issues that weigh really heavily with them, and affect them more personally. And most, even if they don't admit it, tend to weigh the things that touch them most - even if there are other things that they think are, in the abstract, as important.

I don't think this is down to people being selfish, it's more that people feel their responsibilities as a sort of set of concentric circles. An example that might resonate with many here is a special concern around women's issues. But the thing is, for those who don't feel that special connection, they probably have other things where they do feel it. Maybe over labour issues, or military questions, whatever. For a lot of people it is around jobs and housing and healthcare.

When we look at who voted for or against Trump in the last election, in the end a lot comes down to who they associate with being more likely to operate within the real of their special concerns. Most will have some significant issues with candidates on both sides. Other issues will have some bearing, but not in quite the same way.

A fair number of Latinos actually voted for Trump last election, I suspect fewer will this time but the Democrats are foolish to think they have them in the bag.

BlackWaveComing · 01/10/2020 00:09

Yeah, no, not that simple. And I very much doubt the black male constituency is vastly more pro-woman than white males.

Last election you had an enormous range of intersecting moods and concerns, ranging from outright misogyny through to outright white supremacy with a million and one valid positions in between. And by valid I don't mean I agree with a Trump vote, just that a reasonable person could see why, for example, an uneducated, unemployed voter might want to 'shake things up' by denying the DNC their vote.

Neither party places women and children as a policy priority. Unsurprising. The Dems just have their abortion rights issue to point at, but just as Labour in the UK doesn't have an explicit and central commitment to women and children's lives and needs, neither do Dems.

The idea of a left wing party that radically centres women and children in their pitch for election is a pipe dream. We don't live in that world. If we did, there might not be a need for feminism. The parties reflect an age old animus towards women, whereby their needs as a class are seen as subordinate to 'universal' issues.

A Democrat vote before they went full gender over sex would reliably be of more help to women and children re access to health care, which is huge.

Individual voters need to weigh up whether the destruction of women as a sex class in law by Dems is a price they'll pay for functional government and healthcare.

Some will, some won't. Some don't vote on so-called 'women's issues' but on policy to do with tax or guns or the courts or state rights or any number of other issues.

Goosefoot · 01/10/2020 00:28

A Democrat vote before they went full gender over sex would reliably be of more help to women and children re access to health care, which is huge.

For me, if I was voting in the US, my biggest concern is that Biden represents the same kind of politics that resulted in larger and larger parts of the population defecting from political engagement and the election of Trump, who is a symptom of a problem far bigger than he himself represents.

Would a vote for Biden, which seems most responsible short term, mean the Democrats believe the story they have been telling themselves for years about heir political direction and representation? Because if it does, if they keep offering Clintons and Obamas and Bidens, if they keep being global corporatists who push identity politics as a way to claim the moral high ground, there will be further alienation and breakdown of social and political cohesion. There will still be an opening for a Trump to win an election, and maybe worse than just win it. And the next Trump might not be an incompetent narcissist, he might be smart, and charming, and have some kind of real agenda which could be just about anything.

BlackWaveComing · 01/10/2020 00:31

I don't disagree.

At the same time, most people don't have the luxury of voting with the long term in mind. I think the US approach to health care keeps voters trapped in short-termism, and that's not their fault as individuals at the ballot box.

Goosefoot · 01/10/2020 00:37

Yes, I mean there is actually no real solution to my worry. If it's true, neither vote is likely to help.

The can't really express the extent to which I blame this situation on the Democrats. The Republicans have failed to maintain their political tradition, but the Democrats have actually betrayed it IMO.

BlackWaveComing · 01/10/2020 00:44

I imagine the 'solution', regardless of election outcome, will be a collapse - sooner or later.

Not good for anyone, definitely not good for women and children. Not sure than an individual woman making her choice at the ballot box can prevent that in any meaningful way. Delay it? Maybe.

Delphinium20 · 01/10/2020 01:46

One thing about those stats...less than half of Americans voted in 2016. So of that 48%, 68% of white men voted for Trump, which is likely about 30% of the US population. There's a lot of apathy in America re: politics. And yes, those are horrible numbers but a lot of white people here, especially in the south are very very racist.

FireUnderTheHand · 01/10/2020 02:38

There are obviously loads of Americans who are single issue voters Nothing [Not much] can be done to sway these voters.

True

(the single issue usually being guns/abortion).

Nope, much more diverse than that

in the last election 52% white women and 68% white men voted for Trump. In itself this is a terrible indictment of white American men, who mostly managed to demonstrate they are unable to get behind and support a woman (HRC).

We voted for HRC as the 'lesser of the evils' not because she is a woman or we liked most of her politics (we don't). She was a party to shitting all over Tulsi Gabbard during Tulsi's 2020 campaign, rendering Gabbard obsolete even though she was our best all-around Dem choice. I don't think assuming that those that voted for Trump are all against having a female president (I'm sure there are many) but my mom is an example of a 'white woman' that voted for him because after voting for 40+ years she feels the Democrats have fucked her over again and again (lifelong Dem voter until 2016). She wanted change, she isn't thrilled but took a chance on her hopes. My mom was rooting for Gabbard as she was the only Dem candidate my mom thinks could be a catalyst for change (I agree) and mom is looking at voting Trump again as Biden represents the institution of inaction and slight-of-hand she looked to avoid in 2016. (Mom loves many of Bernie's ideas but - and I agree - those ideas can't come to fruition in one term or even two probably would take two decades - it needs to be a slow progression not a race, this country and its infrastructure is too big to make such extreme changes quickly). I like Yang's take on Universal Income - and believe it should have been instituted as soon as the nation started selling our natural resources. But again things like that take time.

Still, I was struck by how the presidential debate had nothing to offer women. I don’t think Trump mentioned women a single time. It’s as if we don’t exist. How come this is acceptable?

That's par for the course in POTUS debates. It isn't acceptable but it is what we get as a nation for poor decision making in regards to choosing 'leaders' that perform leadership without leading.

overwhelming majority of black and Latino voters voted Democrat last time, as in all the previous elections

Overwhelming is an overstatement and variation by ethnicity is a huge consideration with US current demographics. For example, in Florida, Cuban Americans tend to vote Republican (57%) while Puerto Ricans tend to lean Democrat. Variations easily ascertained by viewing state voter turnout exit polls shows you the true story (by state, origin, perceived race, socio-economic position, and ethnicity). Democrats taking the black vote or the Latino and/or Hispanic vote for granted are morons. My neighborhood is super diverse (ethnicity and most interestingly politics as the yard signs show)... on our block the Haitian family are Trump supporters, many of the 'white perceived' households are voting for Biden, one of the Latino families doesn't vote and the other votes Democrat/Republican split between two generations, and we are going third party this time.

The debate means basically nothing IMO. I decided to not engage with it at all this year (speculation, actual debate, opinions on outcome.). I guessed what would happen and as confirmed by DH (I didn't ask he volunteered) my predictions were perfectly accurate so I feel great about not wasting my time.

FireUnderTheHand · 01/10/2020 02:53

The idea of a left wing party that radically centres women and children in their pitch for election is a pipe dream. We don't live in that world. If we did, there might not be a need for feminism. The parties reflect an age old animus towards women, whereby their needs as a class are seen as subordinate to 'universal' issues.

A Democrat vote before they went full gender over sex would reliably be of more help to women and children re access to health care, which is huge.

Individual voters need to weigh up whether the destruction of women as a sex class in law by Dems is a price they'll pay for functional government and healthcare.

The can't really express the extent to which I blame this situation on the Democrats. The Republicans have failed to maintain their political tradition, but the Democrats have actually betrayed it IMO.

I imagine the 'solution', regardless of election outcome, will be a collapse - sooner or later.

All of this, a mashup of PPs posts, explains my position as an American citizen and resident voter.

DH is beyond apathetic except for how he worries about it all affecting me and the girls/women of this country. I am resigned, invisible, and the enemy for not carrying a party line (either side) that is demonstrably damaging to my rights as a female American. No Trump, no Biden for our house. We are focusing on local, county, state elections for the foreseeable future. We (DH and I) have taken to attempting to predict the seemingly inevitable civil war and fall of the empire - we joke about it mostly but we both are too acquainted with history to go about our business without some level of looming doom.

turnitonagain · 01/10/2020 02:55

America is a conservative country and I’m constantly surprised by people not understanding this. Many people despite their personal lives looking very 2020 are fully indoctrinated in the belief that white married Christian small town values are the bedrock of America. So divorced women who’ve had abortions will vote for Republicans because they rationalise that their vote sort of “makes up” for what they consider their personal failures.

My opinion is that racism is the reason neither party ever actually offers policies that help women, because in the 1980s Reagan popularised the idea of the “welfare queen” aka a black woman who refuses to work, has lots of kids, and takes government money.

But something important to remember - America is not just the president. State and local government is very important due to the federal system. New York is a better state to be a woman than Alabama is. So you can look at the parties who run big cities or certain states and see the difference in local policies.

BlackWaveComing · 01/10/2020 04:03

@turnitonagain

America is a conservative country and I’m constantly surprised by people not understanding this. Many people despite their personal lives looking very 2020 are fully indoctrinated in the belief that white married Christian small town values are the bedrock of America. So divorced women who’ve had abortions will vote for Republicans because they rationalise that their vote sort of “makes up” for what they consider their personal failures.

My opinion is that racism is the reason neither party ever actually offers policies that help women, because in the 1980s Reagan popularised the idea of the “welfare queen” aka a black woman who refuses to work, has lots of kids, and takes government money.

But something important to remember - America is not just the president. State and local government is very important due to the federal system. New York is a better state to be a woman than Alabama is. So you can look at the parties who run big cities or certain states and see the difference in local policies.

Keeping an eye on what's happening at a local, county and even State level probably has more impact on your day to day life as a woman, anyway.

If it's any consolation, I think many other places in the Anglosphere are not far behind the US in terms of collapse, though with different instigating factors.

Gronky · 01/10/2020 09:27

who mostly managed to demonstrate they are unable to get behind and support a woman (HRC)

Do you believe that HRC would have done significantly better with the same political policies and history if she were male? My impression was that, while she probably was treated more unkindly by her opponents (in both parties) due to her sex, it was rather far down the list of reasons (not necessarily well founded reasons) why swing voters might have voted for Donald Trump. Alternatively, did you mean something else?

turnitonagain · 01/10/2020 12:57

Do you believe that HRC would have done significantly better with the same political policies and history if she were male?

There is research from the US that says people perceive female politicians to be more liberal than male politicians who have the same positions.

Gronky · 01/10/2020 14:44

There is research from the US that says people perceive female politicians to be more liberal than male politicians who have the same positions.

I'm not sure that played a significant role in her loss either (being perceived as more liberal). In my (very conjectural) opinion , her biggest (but, by no means, only) challenge going into 2016 was growing anti-establishment sentiments across the political spectrum which were at odds with her political career. I don't believe that it's easy to 'win' political credit as Secretary of State in any geopolitical climate and the one that existed during her tenure was particularly challenging. I realise that Secretary of State wasn't the entire sum of her political career but that struck me as the particular focus of the criticisms she (rightly or wrongly) faced.

Yellownotblue · 01/10/2020 18:50

Do you believe that HRC would have done significantly better with the same political policies and history if she were male?

Yes. I believe that.

Much was made of Joe Biden’s “electability” in the Dem leadership race, mostly by people keen to point out he appears more electable than Harris, Klobuchar, Warren and Buttigieg. I don’t think it’s a coincidence that he happens to be male, white and straight.

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Goosefoot · 01/10/2020 19:00

There are certain people who g on a lot about electability that believe a man is more electable. I'm not sure though that they are correct about that.

Biden reminds me of the sort of situation where everyone picks their top three choices for painting a communal space, and it ends up yellow, a colour no one actually likes all that much.

But I've been thinking about this from upthread:

The idea of a left wing party that radically centres women and children in their pitch for election is a pipe dream.

I'm not sure that a political party or government should radically centre one particular group, of any kind. If one group of people is centred, what that means is that other groups are not.

Gronky · 01/10/2020 19:34

Thank you for your reply, Yellownotblue. Out of interest, who do you feel should have won the 2020 primary and, if I might ask, why?

In my (perhaps overly cynical) opinion, Biden was chosen because they're seeking to rekindle the popularity enjoyed by Obama and, policy-wise, there wasn't much difference between him and your other named candidates, save for Elizabeth Warren, who seemed to lack the grass roots support base that Bernie Sanders had with broadly similar policies.

BovaryX · 01/10/2020 20:58

Still, in the last election 52% white women and 68% white men voted for Trump. In itself this is a terrible indictment of white American men

No. It is not. It is however a terrible indictment of the Democratic party machine which chose a Washington Beltway candidate whose profound unpopularity was off the charts. People who voted Obama in 2012 voted Trump in 2016. But since the media can't acknowledge the existence of such voters, we get the 'basket of deplorables' stunt. Not a smart look for winning votes or understanding election results.

FifteenToes · 01/10/2020 21:32

Still, in the last election 52% white women and 68% white men voted for Trump. In itself this is a terrible indictment of white American men, who mostly managed to demonstrate they are unable to get behind and support a woman (HRC). I honestly don’t know how white men can ever redeem themselves for that.

Exit polls said 53% white women and 63% white men, so not quite so extreme, but I agree it's not a good look either way.

Have to say though, this is hardly a glowing recommendation of white American women - that "only a small majority" of them voted for the man who wanted to grab 'em by the pussy, whereas a somewhat larger majority of the men did.

As mentioned previously the depth of American conservatism can be hard to fathom. British conservatism is hard enough, but at least we have a labour movement and left wing counterweight of some substance, even if it's struggling right at the moment.

And it seems like the poorer and more disempowered people get, the keener they are the vote for the policies and people that are going to keep them that way.

nepeta · 01/10/2020 21:52

The US is much more like Europe than like any country in Europe. Some states are extremely right-wing, some extremely left-wing. Some states are quite poor and have terrible health outcomes while others are wealthy and do as well as Europe in terms of health. There is a north and south divide maybe a little like the one in Europe and so on.

So it is tricky to talk about what the whole country does as a whole.

In practice, the outcome of the elections depends only on certain states and which candidate manages to get hold of them. Far too many states have been gerrymandered or otherwise developed into essentially single-party states, and this gives the ones which matter a lot of political power. In many of those someone's vote doesn't matter on the federal level much at all. Local concerns, however, obviously do matter.

ListeningQuietly · 01/10/2020 22:00

The GOP is in a very bad place

The Democrats are in a pretty bad place

The USA is in a bad place

A vote for the Democrats reduces the damage that Trumps version of politics can do to the USA
and gives time for the TRA worm to turn and the gerrymandering worm to turn and the elector exclusion worm to turn

A vote for Trump will be great for the anti TRA but horrendous for abortion and contraception and healthcare rights
and everything else

nepeta · 01/10/2020 22:32

ListeningQuietly
"A vote for Trump will be great for the anti TRA but horrendous for abortion and contraception and healthcare rights
and everything else"

I strongly agree, of course. Trump is a pathological sadistic narcissist, among other problems. Still, the vicious part of me thinks that if it is now 'people' who get pregnant then let 'people' defend reproductive rights. I would never act on that but resent my erasure from the picture and the fact that if it indeed was true that 'people' in general could get pregnant abortion would be available at most street corners.

turnitonagain · 02/10/2020 01:02

I strongly agree, of course. Trump is a pathological sadistic narcissist, among other problems. Still, the vicious part of me thinks that if it is now 'people' who get pregnant then let 'people' defend reproductive rights.

Honestly this type of la gauge is not in mainstream American discourse anywhere. Much is made on MN of random period pants brands who say “people with periods” but watch CNN or read the Washington Post, you don’t see that sort of talk. Let alone the large number of mostly evangelical Christian communities where people pray publicly at work.

BlackWaveComing · 02/10/2020 01:25

@Goosefoot

There are certain people who g on a lot about electability that believe a man is more electable. I'm not sure though that they are correct about that. Biden reminds me of the sort of situation where everyone picks their top three choices for painting a communal space, and it ends up yellow, a colour no one actually likes all that much.

But I've been thinking about this from upthread:

The idea of a left wing party that radically centres women and children in their pitch for election is a pipe dream.

I'm not sure that a political party or government should radically centre one particular group, of any kind. If one group of people is centred, what that means is that other groups are not.

Well, of course you don't agree - you're not a feminist, so far as I'm aware?

Personally, I'd love to a single election anywhere that put the welfare of the child at the heart of the manifesto, but that's just me.

Goosefoot · 02/10/2020 02:18

Well, of course you don't agree - you're not a feminist, so far as I'm aware?

Whatever I am, I don't think politics can exist to consider only one segment of the population, and I think a great many feminists would agree with that. In any case, you might not have noticed, but women don't all agree about what they would like politics to look like.

Unfortunately some feminists that belong to the identity politics faction - a group I would certainly deny membership in - likes to present themselves as the representatives of women's interests, defining what "centring women" would look like. Even if that would mean not actually listening to actual women.

Personally, I'd love to a single election anywhere that put the welfare of the child at the heart of the manifesto, but that's just me.

Everyone is a child at some point, that's a much more defensible idea, though you still aren't likely to find consensus among women about it. A goodly number of American women would consider abortion restrictions an important part of child welfare.

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