@midgebabe
You know, this is something I have a big issue with, the constant calls for kindness and empathy coming from a group who show a persistent self-cantered lack of it towards anyone else. I’m absolutely certain that those who do spout threats and abuse are a (alas, from my reading, not as small as made out) minority within the movement, yet apart from a few brave voices, where is the condemnation of that within the community itself? Can they not see how they’re damaging their own cause, and actually providing all the evidence needed that quite a few within the movement probably should be treated with a deal of caution?
The whole issue is a mess, and I’m glad no new legislation is coming into place when the whole concept of what being trans even is is all so vague and contradictory. It needs pinning down, which can only happen in a way that will exclude quite a few who’ve nestled themselves under the ridiculously huge umbrella, but...tough.