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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Clarification on claims regarding the impact of male inclusion in women's support sector

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WTFSeriously · 08/09/2020 20:56

I want to post clarification on claims made about there being ‘no evidence’ of any issues of male inclusion in what is supposed to be female only support services.

In the now closed web chat by Laura Bates she has included a link to claims that male inclusion in female only support has caused/will not cause any issues, from Scottish women’s orgs. She says:

“I believe that all women deserve dignity and safety, particularly in sexual violence service provision. I think it is important to note, for example, that all women’s frontline sexual and domestic violence services that receive Scottish Government funding have been trans inclusive for over 6 years, and that this has not resulted in a single incident of concern or challenge, according to those organisations. (Source: www.engender.org.uk/news/blog/frequently-asked-questions-womens-equality-and-the-gender-recognition-act/).

It’s important to understand just how void of evidence the claims made by Scotgov funded women’s orgs are.

The following exert comes from Maggie Mellon’s website https://maggiemellon.online/2019/08/22/no-problem-no-evidence-2/

About Maggie Mellon: “(CQSW, MSc, Dip Child Protection) I am social worker with many years’experience in both Scotland and England. I have been vice chair of the British Association of Social Workers since 2014, and also chairs the Association’s Ethics and Human Rights Committee. Non – executive Director of NHS Health Scotland and is a member of the editorial Board of Scottish Justice Matters, and was formerly Director of Services for Children 1st and Head of Public Policy for NCH Action for Children in Scotland. I was chair of the Scottish Child Law Centre from 2009 -12. I now work independently as a consultant on social work practice and public policy.”

Her work on looking at the claims made by the scotgov funded women’s support sector concludes:

“Scottish Women’s Aid and Rape Crisis Scotland have in practice got very little experience of providing their services to men who claim to be women. It is not clear from the evidence whether SWA have any experience of providing refuge. They do not say what their experience of service provision to biological men consists of. Is it telephone based? Is it mainly their training or outreach services? If they are training others in the inclusion of men who identify as women and vice versa, what is the evidence base for this, given that they have little or perhaps no experience and certainly no research or evaluation?
While SWA and RCS may not currently ask for birth certificates or Gender Recognition Certificates they do currently have the right to require a GRC, and to refuse a service or employment to anyone without a GRC. Therefore currently, if a man with a beard applied for service or for a job with them, they would be entitled to and would surely ask for a gender recognition certificate or a birth certificate in order to protect the women using services designed for women who are overwhelmingly victims of male violence or abuse.
RCS and SWA are concerned for the rights and dignity of men who claim to be women. But they support legal changes that would force them and the women who use their services to accept men with fully intact male bodies as actual women for the purposes of women-only services.
The government-funded women’s organisations which are supporting the government’s proposals for the legal changes may genuinely believe that there will be no problem for women. However it is clear from the correspondence and from their own submissions to Parliament that they cannot provide the necessary evidence to support their beliefs. Therefore their testimony should not be used in the way that it has been to support the changes. These organisations’ support for the GRA proposals has been used quite wrongly to dismiss the legitimate concerns of self-funded women’s organisations .
These organisation and also LGBTY and Scottish Trans Alliance are almost totally funded by government. To date I have received no response from the Scottish Government on the question of whether they asked for evidence from SWA or Rape Crisis or Engender before using their claims to support the Government GRA proposals “

Engender do not ask women for any views or experiences on their need for female only support services. They cannot speak for women who have self excluded from any services & do not speak for survivors who have been repeatedly ignored & dismissed by the very orgs funded to support them.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/09/2020 12:55

My post was specifically related to the thread subject, which was Laura Bates quoting "Engender", an organisation funded by the Scottish government.

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 09/09/2020 12:59

Yep. When people say there have been no objections to TW accessing women's refuges / rape crisis etc what they mean is that the Scottish government asked the leaders of such services funded by the Scottish government (which are required to be trans inclusive to receive funding) and those leaders said there were no issues. Front line workers and women who use these services not asked.

OvaHere · 09/09/2020 13:01

What is the justification for all these deleted posts? I read the thread last night and didn't see any grounds for deletion. Organisations especially those connected to governments aren't above criticism.

NameXForThis · 09/09/2020 13:02

Reading through this thread, with all the deletions, is quite bizarre - the overlookers have done a number with this one....

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/09/2020 13:20

Even at the women and equalities committee meeting with Karen IS, she said that she'd been inundated by messages by refuge workers before the meeting saying that they are having problems but are afraid to speak up. And the other people there said themselves when asked if they'd ever had a problem from including TW that they had, but it was just the "other" women being silly. It went something like "Well the women were upset once that one of the TW didn't look enough like a woman. I mean, what does a woman look like?" How anyone working in these services can be so callous and devoid of integrity is beyond me.

This. Fucking appalling.

WTFSeriously · 09/09/2020 13:24

@MNHQ Can you post an explanation for the deletions on this thread? I don't recall anything posted that would warrant deletions.

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BrassicaRabbit · 09/09/2020 13:44

I am at a total loss to understand the deletions.

Why can't we talk about this?

stumbledin · 09/09/2020 13:56

I may have expressed myself badly but nothing in the post I made last night was anything I haven't said before.

I can only imagine that with the live chat deletions are to not have the individual concerned aware that some of us dont agree with her!

This is similar to moderators on the Guardian (long before trans became an issue) which had a specific policy that if you queried the politics of the person (supposed feminist) they had put forward as competent to speak on an issue, you got deleted. Rather undermining the concept of opening up an article for comment.

MillyMollyFarmer · 09/09/2020 14:02

Laura Bates. Anything mentioning the full name and a criticism, no insults, was deleted.

I mean... are they going to delete entire threads criticising public figures? Because MM gets a bashing, as do loads of politicians... people criticise Posie harshly on these boards... why not someone like this?

Hazeldine · 09/09/2020 17:37

@Ereshkigalangcleg

See also this excellent response to Stonewall from FOVAS

Ignored by Stonewall, and also my MP, to whom I sent a personal letter about my history of DV linking this, which he didn't even bother to cobble together a copy and paste response to.

No one gives a fuck about what the actual female refuge users think.

My MP hasn’t replied either Angry
MillyMollyFarmer · 09/09/2020 17:42

Why can't we talk about this?

Why indeed

BrandineDelRoy · 09/09/2020 18:13

@BrassicaRabbit

The whole thing just shows such an unbelievable lack of understanding of what some women go through

This. Plus I am fed up with hearing from people and organisations who don't understand how trauma works - most of these women will be traumatised.

Fight or flight are well known. Everyone forgets freeze. All trauma responses are involuntary but freeze is often a survival tactic employed by smaller prey animals. It's extremely relevant to women who have been attacked by men, because of the inherent differences in physical strength as well as the structural oppression of women by society.

A traumatised woman who encounters a male bodied person in a "single sex" space isn't necessarily going to be able to raise an objection. A women in need of a refuge is well used to being trapped in a domestic setting with a male who doesn't respect her boundaries. And the gaslighting of the staff who are complicit in the deceit simply echoes the gaslighting and power imbalance she tried to escape at home. She will freeze and or possibly attempt to appease them.

Where is the safeguarding? Where is the empathy for those women who have experienced male violence to the extent that it alters their nervous system? Why aren't they seen as the most vulnerable and worth fighting for?

I wanted to give Laura the benefit of the doubt because I enjoy some of her writing and I believe people have to be left space to change their minds and grow. But this is so upsetting.

This is an excellent post.
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