@Beni1993
I thought feminism was about women's rights to live their life without judgement, without feeling pressured to be any kind of way that society says they should be. Guess I was mistaken and definitely not a feminist anymore
What can be more evidence someone is "feeling pressured to be any kind of way that society says they should be" than that person thinking, "I can't bear the arbitrary societal expectations indiscriminately placed upon all women... so I'll have my breasts excised, and look less like a woman, and the societal expectations will change..."
That's not working for the liberation of women - which is feminism. That's conceding that unbearably rigid gender roles are best countered not by women refusing to accept them, but by extreme plastic surgery being made available so some can evade being seen as women at all. That's not really a solution, is it?
I also note that you're defining this person as a woman. That's transphobic, by the present definitions. This person is not and never was a woman, if you buy the belief system. I don't, so I'm with you - but transmen and non-binary natal women tend not to want to be grouped as women. That's the point, no?
I really hope this person is happy afterwards, and it works out for them, whatever choices they make. We all have to do whatever we can to try to be happy in life, and this hurts nobody else, so I strongly hope it's the intended solution to the described feelings. But it makes me really fucking sad, that this is where we are as a society, and this is what we're doing to people.