@DianasLasso
OMG -
has anyone ever seen Adrian Mole and Lil' OJ in the same place at the same time? I think we're onto something here.
and stopped doing all the housework for him and his dad
Did he grow up to employ a (female) cleaner, but claim that it was his flatmate what made him do it? 😂 😂 😂
ha ha ha this made me go looking for this punchline, which I had missed:
www.spectator.co.uk/article/owen-jones-comes-off-worse-in-row-over-paying-cleaners
Back at the time, I posted somewhere on this site something like: no way does he actually physically do cleaning. no way does he do cleaning a real sense that means it actually gets done, he sets his alarm to get up at 7 and cracks on and gets through a long list of proper chores, like women with jobs and no cleaners have to do, and as such, he is not qualified to say a fucking word.
"when you live with other people you have to make compromises." well yes, of some sort. But if you want to avoid paying a cleaner, Jones, and you live with people who don't want to live in filth, one available "compromise" is "do all the fucking cleaning yourself, consistently, without complaining about it, at the expense of your own job, career, hobbies, and / or sleep, perhaps at the expense of your children - oh not in your case, you don't have any, so jolly good that's one set of people who won't be losing out in that case". You could, in other words, do exactly what you implicitly demand women do. Clean, for everyone, to keep the peace.
OR you could get a pro. You could find someone who has chosen to be self-employed, doing something they are good at and charging a fair fee, and is master / mistress of their destiny; and support that person's business and be a good honest respectful client and have a decent, dignified working relationship.
what would be wrong with that? Nothing, I suppose - if you do it