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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'So Many Reasons to Hate Gay People'

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MilesJuppIsMyBitch · 14/06/2020 11:06

Just came across this little gem on Twitter, with a LOT of likes.

Open, unabashed homophobia from someone sheltering under the LGBTQ+ umbrella.

Is this a spoof? Am I missing something?

'So Many Reasons to Hate Gay People'
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DrDavidBanner · 14/06/2020 11:10

To be fair, that looks like a child, guessing from the name a boy? Kids like to talk shit on Twitter, it means nothing to them.

Hellohello2020 · 14/06/2020 11:12

Self hating gay child who thinks trans is an escape. Very sad.

MilesJuppIsMyBitch · 14/06/2020 11:13

Oh well, that's alright then.

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WorkingItOutAsIGo · 14/06/2020 11:19

That is terrible. There are no good reasons to say that.

MilesJuppIsMyBitch · 14/06/2020 11:23

Child or not, look at the number of likes and shares.

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yestheyhavethesamedad · 14/06/2020 16:45

That persons entire page is about how homophobia is good and as soon as they start estrogen woman should look out as they will be prettier ect than them 🤦‍♀️

Gncq · 14/06/2020 16:52

Yeah I spotted that one on Twitter.

I also think they're American and conservative? So yeah it's great, this gay hating kid has access to guns.

If anyone tries denying that gender ideology is inherently sexist/homophobic this type of tweet consistently proves otherwise.

DrDavidBanner · 14/06/2020 18:01

So its self hatred then?

Jesus the whole thing is fucked up. Confused homosexual children should be getting support to come to terms with their sexuality, not be being convinced that maybe they're transgender instead.

I agree what they're saying is wrong. I'm no longer on Twitter, its too much of a shitshow, but I noticed a lot of the most objectionable TRAs on there were actually quite self hating and seemed to relish the disagreement and abuse they received as proof that "nasty TERFS want me dead!!!"

Its a form of masochism, it took me a while to spot these signs and then understand that I do not need to involve myself in some one elses fetish.

CaraDune · 14/06/2020 19:06

Its a form of masochism, it took me a while to spot these signs and then understand that I do not need to involve myself in some one elses fetish.

Absolutely. But I also wonder if it's a sign of past abuse too. (I would imagine this kid's upbringing was not at all a welcoming, inclusive environment, in fact I'd put money on the parents, especially the father, being raging homophobes too).

There's a type of behaviour that I've heard both survivors of domestic violence and professionals in the field describe, whereby the only control a victim has over the attacks on them becomes one of timing - they can, for instance, stop walking on eggshells to try to get the violence out the way before the kids come home from school (someone very dear to me used to use this with her hideous ex). This then becomes a very ingrained, learned behaviour pattern where the person starts to act this way to a lot of people around them, and can come across (if you don't know where the behaviour's coming from) as deliberately provocative. )f course, that's not really what's going on, and with their abuser, the whole point is that no matter what they did there's no excuse for violence, and in any case there was no way the victim could have avoided the violence at any point, because the abuser was always going to abuse them, and it's wrong to read the surface behaviour this way and then lapse into some form of victim blaming - but it can be very hard work for those around them trying to support them.

When I see someone indulging in masochistic behaviour (for example starting a thread on relationships about "I'm the other woman, I wish you'd understand", where they must know they'll get a complete kicking and almost seem to want to be judged by all and sundry) I always wonder about the motivation.

(Unless of course the motivation is obviously "here for the screenshots.")

SunsetBeetch · 14/06/2020 19:09

I think you're absolutely right there Dr

Also, I notice a lot of TRA tweets getting likes and retweets that far outstrip their follower count. Likes can be bought...

TheCrowAndThePitcher · 14/06/2020 19:30

You can’t be against homophobia AND transphobia. People may say they are but in practice it’s impossible. Some people aren’t very discrete.

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