both of my teens attend very Stonewall friendly, woke schools/Colleges and and seem completely blind to any concept other than "TWAW" hashtag no debate etc. I've never ever forced my views on them, but they understand how I feel. It only comes up in conversation when they raise it and I calmly state my position. I don't try to persuade them they're wrong, at all. They've always said they think it's 'mean and unkind' not to believe that TWAW etc and that they really don't get the need for sex segregated spaces, for women to have their own sport without men etc. For them, it boils down to kindness and being nice, because using 'correct pronouns' (even when they're incorrect) is the 'right thing to do' etc etc. That's fine. Their choice, etc.
Had a very long chat with my 19 year old yesterday. She was asking lots of questions and I could hear/sense the cognitive dissonance. It seemed that she was talking with the intention to understand and learn, rather than talking with the intention to rant and repeat the same old mantras. I told her about Magdalen Berns and suggested she watch her videos.
She watched all of them. She came to speak to me today and said that she realised that Magdalen was right and she agrees with every word she says. She says that she's changed her mind on the whole subject.
She also said that it's a big shame she can't say this in public or to her friends as she'd be shouted down.
Rest in peace Magdalen, wonderful woman who helped my daughter to see what I've been gently trying to get her to understand for ages. I didn't want to force feed my views to her, wanted her to reach her own conclusions and am so glad she has.