Didn't see this posted elsewhere, Alex is bloody superb today in the Times.
I've been a fan of his for a long time, but he has some marvellous observations, for example:
But if gender exists on a spectrum, being trans does so too. At one end there is the person who has undergone surgery and received a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC) and at the other there is a man with a beard and a penis who has no intention of having surgery but demands you call him a woman. I do not believe it is “transphobic” to suggest that these are different people with very different experiences. It is possible to respect their choices while appreciating their distinguishing features.
www.thetimes.co.uk/article/if-gender-exists-on-a-spectrum-surely-being-trans-does-too-v7f86pdr8