The world is not so very interested in understanding trans people and cares little about accommodating them
Not sure what country he's living in... women in the UK can't move for initiatives and redesignating of their resources, forcibly, being scolded by agencies frantic to accommodate people born male at the cost of females, and constantly being exhorted on understanding, being kind, we're knee deep in it.
Except 'understand' and 'be kind' usually translates as 'females shut up and do exactly what you're told'.