..pour energy into making sure there is a change in culture and support for women do that those for whom having a child is not truly unthinkable, but they just need specific support, receive that support.
Pro life groups that campaign for that kind of support, be it adequate counselling, or political changes so that women are safe from abuse and ok financially or able to continue study, have my support. I think that's an appropriate perspective if you claim to be pro-woman and pro-life.
They have my utmost support and respect for doing that work too. Eg Life used to give out useful mother and baby packs of kit and even used to run residential places for women who needed help in pregnancy or early days of motherhood. Brilliant, practical woman-friendly stuff (when offered with no strings) to women who need it.
There is unlimited unbiased informed free counselling on offer though, at abortion providers. They have to be registered to offer that service with the government and I am wary that ‘pro life’ campaigns have previously sought to undermine the trust in their integrity because the anti-choice groups didn’t like the message of choice and information offered there. But anyway, just wanted to agree with your point.