Hi Feminism chat, I’m exhausted with cancer treatment on top of a chronic illness which causes fatigue, so please be patient if I’m not as coherent as I should be.
During radiotherapy today a male radiotherapist who was not part of my treatment team walked in on me undressed, and just stared at me, I had to tell him twice to leave. This was especially upsetting as I’d disclosed childhood abuse to the cancer team, in order to be clear that I wanted female professionals only.
Everything about his behaviour said it wasn’t an accident, and both my husband and I had noticed him staring at me before I went in for treatment. This has triggered some upsetting emotions, and I would rather run away quietly, but the team responsible for me seemed quite keen for me to complain, and I feel a duty to speak up as I know all to well how silence protects this kind of man.
Anyway, the part I was hoping for help with was the bit of the form which asks for comments in relation to protected characteristics under the equality act - I feel sure I should be able to word this, but am exhausted to a level that’s affecting my cognitive function.
I’m in tears here, don’t know if it’s the fatigue, CPTSD or just the last few months of treatment etc, but I do know I was doing ok with it all until today. Any help with the words from the mighty brains of the feminism board would be greatly appreciated.