I absolutely agree with the analysis by Red - it's essential to understand and address the biggest picture possible. Politics, money, culture wars, wokeism, power. And how Western capitalism shores everything up. Jennifer Bilek is a great person to follow on Twitter for this.
However, this movement also relies on the personal. Relies on as many individuals as possible being netted - whether they actually truly believe it or feel that they must stay quiet because they assume everyone else is on board.
The implied threat of being shunned carries immense weight and power. Both Red and I, and so many who dare to question, are living that reality. Either personally or publicly.
The power of MumsNet is that it makes the public personal and the personal public. It brings difficult and complex issues into the living rooms of women and parents and makes them relateable to our own experiences and our own families, so that we have a personal focus of engagement and connection.
For a long time I've known that we need to see the biggest picture, we need to join all the dots together. But for the picture to make sense, we have to expose and call it out on every level.
The personal is corporate. The personal is political. The ideology relies equally on change happening simultaneously from the bottom up and the top down.
Every layer needs exposing for it to make sense to us as a society.
There are absolutely times to grey rock, but I don't think this is it. The discussions are too important here - safeguarding and a narrative that has the power to silence and manipulate us all.