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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Price of Silence is Higher Than Speaking Out?

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ArranUpsideDown · 30/12/2019 01:29

Quillette: We ‘Gender-Critical’ Feminists Pay a Price for Speaking Out. But the Price of Silence is Higher

US Perspective - mentions WoLF, Hands Across the Aisle etc. with a reference to JKR's tweet.

Disagreement over sex and gender have cleaved the feminist community between those who believe that biological sex is immutable, and those who believe that transitioning sex to align body with brain is not only possible, but a legally binding marker of identity. Courts, social-services organizations and schools all have been pushed to adopt the most doctrinaire precepts of trans-rights advocacy. In some cases, the issue has divided “gender-critical” women’s-rights advocates from strident trans-rights advocates. It also has caused schisms within feminism; and even within families, with some parents split over the best course of action for their kids. While this drama unfolds publicly in legislatures, town councils and on social media, it also takes a personal toll on those who’ve gotten caught up in this unusually vicious front in the culture war.
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Conservative women, often derided by the left for their views on family, motherhood and religion, may seem like awkward allies for gender-critical, radical feminists. But there are a few key views that we have in common: women have the right to choose their own path in life, without interference; women and men are different on a biological, cellular level; and children need to be protected from exploitation. This is how we came to extend our “hands across the aisle.”

Opposition to radicalized gender ideology—the false view that stating pronouns remakes your sex—was not something I ever imagined would be my cause. As a former member of the New York City theater world, I wanted to stay isolated in my arts bubble, floating on clouds of audience adoration and the glamour of poetic self-expression. But I found that I could not shy away from it. I could not keep my mouth shut,

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JellySlice · 30/12/2019 08:42

When faced with two choices of action, doing nothing is also a choice. It is rarely, however, the neutral choice the non-actor thinks it is.

ArranUpsideDown · 30/12/2019 11:59

I thought the account of the family problems it has caused were poignant.

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ArranUpsideDown · 31/12/2019 11:26

Just stumbled across another account of the cost of speaking out:

2019 is almost gone. We (me & husband) didn't get some of our usual holiday/NYE invites this year -- first time in over a decade. I know it's because of me. Because this is the year I became publicly & unapologetically gender critical.

I'm the one who gets dragged to parties, so I can't say I'm distraught having fewer parties to avoid. Can't say the same for my husband, who is a social butterfly. Struck by how insane and polarized our culture is. And how many people I once respected are so mindless.

Notably, there are men within this social circle who have publicly agreed with me on gender issues, and they are not being blacklisted by longtime friends. I guess only women have to pay the price. Which isn't surprising, really, considering how anti-feminist trans activism is.

It stung, badly, the first few times I lost friends. I don't care anymore. In May, a mob of 200+ people some former friends screamed like maniacs at me & my newborn "SAVE THE BABY FROM THE TERF", and none of these former friends spoke up, apologized etc. [Thread continues.]

twitter.com/preta_6/status/1211815318403743744

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