I got a she-wee!

[ahumanfemale]

Different brand but same idea. I am unbelievably happy. The gifted bought it because her friend makes this brand. Anyway. For all those places with "gender neutral" and men's loos, where we know the men using "gender neutral" when they have another choice will likely be the ones we want to avoid, I think I now have the way ahead!

I am not a troll. I am asking for serious advice.
So you won't find any here. You can't because this thread is about something we don't have experience of.

And I find it odd that it's such an issue that you need to ask on this thread (and pm women) but a) haven't started your own or b) your surgeon didn't discuss potential problems with you beforehand. Assuming you've actually had surgery - if not (and I don't need to know) then the situation is even more removed than what this thread is about.

We can't help you because what you're talking about is something we have zero experience of. Other people who share your experience will probably be much more helpful. And as it's help you're after, I'm sure you'll be off to ask them. I hope they give you the information you need.

And this is why we need to protect women's spaces. Troll has perfectly illustrated this by trying to derail the discussion.

Katietrans What ahumanfemale said. Male anatomy after reassignment surgery is still male anatomy and we have no experience of it and we have no experience of it in order to advise you.

If you are determined to undergo surgery, I would recommend consulting your urologist and seeking out MTFs who hike or do other outdoor activities. However, in line with my stance that irreversible medical procedures should always (for any condition, not just gender dysphoria) be the treatment option of last resort, I would suggest that you try to accept your male body as-is and recognise that the modes of self-expression traditionally coded as "feminine" are in fact open to people of both sexes.

I wish you the best outcome for you, whatever you decide.

I really wouldn't want one willy-coloured..

Brad Pitt willy colour or Samuel L Jackson willy colour?

Horse now those are two images I didn't think I'd have in mind this evening!