I've just been recommended this podcast and I thought I'd pass it on. This is a link to Spotify where if you register for free you can listen for free:
open.spotify.com/show/2LOJaYKijiwNefCvzczyib
He tells the story of two women, artist Elizabeth Thompson who was narrowly prevented from becoming the first female Royal Academician, and Julia Gillard, first female prime minister of Australia. He makes the point that male institutions, having allowed a woman into their midst, feel so virtuous that they can they then feel free to revert to the worst kinds of sexist behaviour. He's also clear on the silencing effect this kind of behaviour has on women.
This was Gillard's speech to the leader of the opposition who'd blamed her because the Speaker, whom she'd appointed, turned out to have sent sexist messages: